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Originally Posted by lilgreen
I'm still struggling and I feel like time is running out. Dh has lost patience and I just can't seem to find the will to try any more. I
Originally Posted by mamameg
I'm here, too.
It might not be the most AP approach -- I've read threads around MDC before about people who are strict about never leaving their kids, and I can appreciate that standpoint, and sometimes fall into that mindset -- but I think my DH and I NEED this time together. Also, the couselor has also suggested that it will benefit the children to allow them to see that we trust other people to care for them. This sits well with me, but I'm not sure if I'm rationalizing or what. I'm curious about what some of you on this tread think about this. How do long overnight trips away from kids fit into an AP philosophy? Can they co-exist? Opinions?
Somewhere in all the day to day, we seem to have lost that deep, intimate connection and I'm desperate to get it back. I may just have to say to hell with AP this time. My marrige is at stake and I think that's more important right now.
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