This could of been written by me!!
I alway try to remember :
1. The mess will be there tomorrow
2.If the family does not like the Mess tell them to do something about it!
3. Friends come to see ME not my House...
4. My house is lived in .
I am always trying tomake time for myself ..often friends
will come over so we both can do a project together..kids hang out and play ,I read ,write, do what ever while nursing,and remenber this shall pass!!!!!!!!!!!