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#1 of 13 Old 08-15-2007, 09:20 PM - Thread Starter
 
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I don't have the energy to go into it right now, but XH totally ruined my day today and will likely do it tomorrow. He's being really mean.

DS saw me crying and said "Mommy sad" and gave me a hug. At least I have somebody who loves me.

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i know the feeling. hope you feel better!

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So sorry you are going through a difficult time ... but what a sweetie of a little boy you have! Melted my heart!

I hope things are looking better today.
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Hi

My XH too is acting the same way! It is so hard because i know my 5 year old feels it when i am sad and it is so hard to be strong sometimes! And pretend Daddy's a good guy.. I send you a big HUG and hope you get your power back soon and dont let him take it from you!!
I take comfort in believing that this is all part of a bigger picture and it is suppose to happen that way and it is like this to make me get out of a certain pattern with him...I believe in reincarnation so it is really my desire to forgive him completely to make sure i never get married to him again!!!
I say things like i am grateful for you (in my head) when he is mean) It sounds stupid but wihout that I would be learning anf growing as I am.
anyway, all the best to you!
BIG HUGS!!

Mama to a daughter born in 2002, and new baby due May 4th 2011!!
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I was right. He made today even worse than yesterday. I hate crying at work.

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See, I even threw in a few kisses, a moon for your XH, and the dancing banana because it's funny! Feel better?
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The dancing banana definitely helps.

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for yesterday,

for today

peace, blessings,
Kim

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I'm sorry, mama! Big hugs to you, and some extra love and kisses for your sweet little boy. What a darling!
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