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Your sig says happily married, I'm thinking today you're feeling at a crisis point now, but generally your relationship is strong. Am I right? For the most part it seems like you guys have just had a lot of tough breaks. Illness, scheduling conflicts, things like that aren't under control of either of you. He's trying, I'll bet he feels much as you do that he needs to provide better, and feels like crud about the failures and misfortunes you've suffered together. I don't know your DH but mine would be feeling very pessimistic and self blaming already at this point, and it'd be up to me to encourage and look to improving in the future, not let him sulk about the past and expect more of the same. If you want to tell him he'd better suck it up and make this military thing work, I'd say to do it by telling him you need this from him and he can, you believe he can. He needs your support and you need his. Without it he definitely won't come through.
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