I am looking for a church. I have lived in this largely Christian town for two years, but because of major marriage problems, I have made almost no friends. I filed for divorce in February and have been trying to put my life in perspective. Overall, I'm doing well, but I'm getting depressed and I'm lonely and not only am I longing for a closer relationship with God, but I need some people in my life who really give a crap about me. I freakin need a hug once in a while and I need to be around people who care about my emotional and spiritual happiness. OK, I could go on forever about that.
I have some options in this town, but all Christian oriented (I'm ok with that, though my views are a little more open...I think we all pray to the same God anyway and Jesus and I are good),,,but I don't know much about churches. I am looking at a Wesleyan Church and First Reformed (Dutch) --I have a lot of family that goes to the FRC and I do like the pastor.
I'm a little bit afraid to just walk myself into either of these churches. I have emailed the FRC pastor, but like the community efforts of the Wesleyan Church. I think part of me is so craving compassion from anyone that I'm afraid of getting it...or that if I enter into an arena where that is possible I might start weeping and never stop. I'm just scared on a number of fronts I guess.
I don't know...this is a lot of babble about different things. I really came online to find out more about these two churches and everything else spilled out.
You're location says Western Michigan. If that means Grand Rapids you might check out Plymouth Congregational, UCC. A dear friend of mine goes there and I think she'd certainly care about you. She comes from a Dutch Reformed background, if that makes any difference!
Mama to two girls: 5/06 and 3/09