Thank you for the info on Matt 2:23 Naz, very interesting! How is your foot doing?
About the person at your church, that's really crappy, but your right about showing love. It gets sticky here though, you've gotta ask the Holy Spirit for direction. You don't want to seem like your kissing their butt, so unless the Lord tells you to, I personally wouldn't go out of my way to do anything special. Id probably just treat them the same as I treat everyone else KWIM?