I usually only light incense. I don't have anything set in stone, yet, b/c I'm still finding my way. I'm having a difficult time finding dieties I can feel. Do any of you know any good books that give names, history, traditional uses, etc. for gods and goddesses? Right now I refer to them as Mother and Father (of the Universe), b/c I don't feel comfortable calling them Lord/Lady, God/Goddess, or specific names. Nothing feels right, yet.