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2007 is the year to shed the old and move onto the NEW- clear the old energy and create anew!

Let's shed the Feng Shui Thread that started in 2003 and CREATE!!

Links to the Old Feng Shui Threads:
Part 1
Part 2
Part 3

**Disclaimer- we aren’t professional practitioners. We are just here to support, continue to learn and teach ourselves and each other. The following info has been taken from all previous Feng Shui threads. I did not write most of it. Rather most of the following is from DebraBaker and Tracy. Some from Michelle Leigh.

** Mushy things that we just avoid trying to figure out cuz it’s confusing:
~ 9 floating/flying stars...but what we can tell you is there is a book called Feng Shui for Dummies by David Daniel Kennedy ISBN# 0764552953 and chapter 13 is all about figuring out the 9 ki power points. There is also the Complete Idiots Guide To Feng Shui by Elizabeth Moran ISBN# 1592573444 and Part 4 (chapters 11-17) is devoted to the Floating/Flying Stars

FAQs


Q. Is Feng Shui a Religion?
A. No. It can be described as a practice, an art, a science, a philosophy and a study but not a religion. It is about 6,000 years old and it started with men observing the environment, places, people, time and how the energies of each interact. It is a practice of understanding and harnessing those energies. Feng Shui translates to wind/water the two natural elements that influence the focus of earth in a dwelling or on a site.

Q. Can you feng shui by Room?
A. Yes- it is more difficult, but you can. For example, the bedroom can be in the wealth corner and the door to the wealth corner could be in the knowledge section. So, you could put up something there that might support more knowledge to bringing in wealth. We don’t really get into this much as it’s pretty confusing. But there are plenty of books on it.

Q. Are mosaics bad b/c they are comprised of broken glass/tile or are they okay b/c they are cemented onto something?
A. It depends on how sharp the bits are. And how far they stick out - if it's smooth and lacquered, it's probably not such a big deal, but if it's sharp and pokey - it depends on where you keep it, but in general, I'd guess that it's fractured and jagged and that sends the wrong kind of energy. You definitely don't want something like that in your bedroom or some place where you need peace, etc.

Q. Where do my Attic and Basement fit into this equation?
A. Wherever the attic is or where the basement is located in terms of the section of the house can be used to activate that area.

In other words sometimes the basement is only in one section of the house so if it is in the relationship section you might want to put something down there, sort of your little secret. Maybe it is a love box. A box filled with some special photos, or a special perfume or maybe something suggestive of love...or even sex (for that matter) maybe a nice g string (haha); but you know little things that are special. Love special. Put that box down in the basement, in an area that isn't seen by anyone regularly. You can also put other little treasures down there which are symbolic of the energy of that you want to activate such as a box of 'jewels' or valuables, if your basement is in your wealth area.... they don't have to be real jewels but again, it is symbolic of what you want or want more of in your life. The same goes for the attic. Put something in the area that you want to generate energy. It is very important that there is no clutter in the attic or the basement.

Q. What about mirrors in the Bedroom?
A. Both form and compass schools hate them. If you are currently partnered: Get rid of the mirrors in the bedroom. You don't need a boyfriend and your husband does not need a girlfriend. You guys have each other. If you cannot get the out of the room- COVER THEM with fabric. If your closet doors are mirrors- paint over them or put up fabric as an alternative to replacing them. Also- Mirrors can cause restless sleep and they seem to confuse the chi. For more info on mirrors go to your favorite search engine and put in ‘Feng Shui mirrors bedroom’ and see what pops up.

Q.What about my laundry room?!?
A. If it is NOT located in the Creativity/Children Area-- Can you put up some shelves and put some photos of family up in that room? Like a small collage. Put a plant or two in there. And if you are stuck you can use silk plants. The white appliances, are they side by side? If so can you some contact paper on the tops of them, some flowered paper. Something fun, just a little square to take the edge off the white. If you are able to paint the room that could really counter a lot of the metal white.
From the book Room By Room:
"display things that you love, but which may not fit in other rooms, such as posters, college memorabilia, or child's finger paintings. Consider painting the laundry room or the door itself a wild and crazy color (I have already suggested green). Or you may want to really break tradition and bring things into the laundry room not normally found there. Anything that makes you feel good will enhance the chi. Brighten it up with a crystal chandelier, a fabulous mirror or a collection of antique glass. Sorting and folding laundry takes a whole new meaning when you’re surrounded with fun or beautiful things. Give the laundry room flair and personality so you smile every time you see it."

Q. Ok- Should my Yard/Garden have a separate Bagua than my House?
A. YES.

What is with painting the front door red?
A. Sometimes it is suggested you pain it red - sometimes it is suggested you paint it black (if it falls in your career bagua for example). In general red is a very auspicious color.

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There are two major forms of feng shui
One of them is Compass and the other is Form (aka Black Sect or Black Hat Feng Shui)

Compass is based on directions. North, South, East, West and is like an octagon for your house. It uses an octagonal layout. You also need your Chinese astrology and that is where things can get complicated.

Link to a version of a bagua octagon layout for your house: http://www.bartlettdesigns.com/fengs...uaoctagon.html

Form is based on the placement of your front door. Form is typically easier to handle for beginners of Feng Shui. http://www.universalfengshui.com says that you should not mix or combine Compass and Form. Pick one or the other and use it.

If you house is a rectangle or a square simply draw a little diagram of it. Then draw a little graph over it like tic tac toe:

123
456
789

1 is wealth & abundance
2 is fame/ reputation
3 is relationships/ romance
4 is family
5 is health
6 is creativity/children
7 is knowledge/ self cultivation
8 is work/ career
9 is helper/angels/travel

Following info paraphrased from The Western Guide to Feng Shui: Room by Room it is not verbatim so there are no copy write issues.

1 is wealth & abundance (color Purple/gold, red)
Water features which have the water moving are encouraged. Wind chimes and prayer flags and banners that symbolically call in wealth and prosperity. Beloved possessions and collections that is literally valuable. Posters, paintings and photographs of the things you'd like to buy or experience. The book says all blues, purples and some reds... gold highlights like frames etc, are ideal for this corner. Quotes and affirmations related to gratitude, wealth and prosperity. All those nice things that you have in a box, that you save to only bring out for a special occasion. You know the crystal candlestick holders or the gold this or the silver that..? Bring them out now. If you need dough and the money is tight bring that stuff out so you start feeling abundant again. Don't hide it away, fearing you'll break it. Bring it out and enjoy it!

Hints for the Office/Wealth
~ Always sit with a solid wall behind your back to ensure that you have support in your life, never sit with a window behind you.
~ If you own a shop try and place the till in your wealth corner, even your petty cash tin. Order books can also be placed here with Chinese coins held together with red ribbon.
~Try and Place an indoor fountain in your wealth corner, to activate ch’i. These also have medical benefits.
~ Place a hanging crystal in your window, this will activate ch’I, as well as looking fantastic, when the hits them they produce the most amazing rainbows
~ Three legged Toad God. This figure is used for attracting wealth and abundance. Place this wonderful creature near your front office entrance, facing into your office for luck and wealth, or place it in the wealth sector of your office to magnify your wealth luck. Always leave the coin in its mouth.

2 is fame/reputation (color: red, orange) [Element: Fire]
You should put up symbols of your accomplishments, such as diplomas, awards and certificates or trophies. It should have pleasant lighting. Images of people you respect, artwork that depicts people or animals, items that are made from animals, leather, faux-fur, feathers, bone and wool are all suggestions for this area. Along with Symbols of your goals for the future (perhaps place your treasure map in this area?), Objects or patterns that are triangular or conical in shape, All subtle and bright and deep shades of red and Sayings quotes and affirmations relating to integrity and to your fame and reputation.

3 is relationships/romance (color: pink, red, white)
Suggestions of Things to put up are Artwork portraying romance and love, Favorite photographs of you or you and your true love, Pairs of things, such as candlesticks, flowers, books and statues, Mementos from romantic experiences, Items in reds, pinks and white along with Quotes, sayings and affirmation on love and romance.

4 is family (color: green, blue) [Element: Wood]
Here is where you want your healthy plants.
In this quadrant fresh flower is significant, the book indicates, dried and silk flowers with bright appearance. Artwork depicting your concept of ideal health or a happy family or garden landscapes. Anything made from wood such as tables, chairs, bowls, Pillars, columns and pedestals, Photos of family and family of friends, blues and greens, floral prints and stripes including linens, wallpaper and upholstery, quotes, sayings and affirmations concerning honesty and forgiveness.

5 is health (color: yellow, earth tones) [Element: Earth]
What is indicated up in family health, applies to this room, at least the health part. Healthy plants, Flowers, etc, things that are bright and cheery. Photos or posters of things that remind you of good health what ever that would be. I would keep this area clear of clutter!

6 is creativity/children (white, pastels, metal) [Element: Metal]
Art or objects that are especially creative, whimsical, playful, and colorful or that stimulate your creative juices, toys, dolls and stuffed animals that bring you joy. However, note, if this is the master bedroom you should not overwhelm the room with the toys, just a tidbit here and there. If there is too much child stuff it can bring out the immaturity of the relationship. Photographs of children, along with anything children made by hand. Circular and oval shapes, items made from metal- items in white and light pastels, and/or quotes, sayings and affirmations that apply to joy, children and creativity.

7 is knowledge/ self-cultivation (color: blue, black, green)
In this area you should put books, tapes or other material that you are currently studying.
Art work that portrays mountains or quite places such as meditation or gardens. Pictures or photos of people you consider wise. Items in black, blue or green along with Meditative or inspiration sayings or quotes or affirmations. Great for bookcases and books. Globes, etc.

8 is work/ career (color: black, dark blues) [Element: Water]
This is good for water features such as aquarium, fountains etc. however looking out the front door the fountain should be on the left side. Not the right side. Any artwork or photos depicting water, pools, lakes or streams might be nice near the door. Any image or object that symbolizes your career. And of course, mirrors, crystal glass things. Items which are black or very dark blue or dark tones and/or Quotes or sayings, affirmations related to courage and following your path. Again, keep it clutter free. Let the energy flow in. Frequently this is where the front door is located if so, make sure there is nothing blocking the front door entrance. Big heavy piece of furniture. Etc. Think of something that would be appropriate for your career.

9 is helpers/angels/travels (color: grey, white, black)
This is the area where you would put religious or spiritual figures you love such as angels, saints, goddesses, teacher etc. objects that have personal spiritual associations, such as rosary crystal or book of prayers photographs of people who have been helpful to you such as mentors teachers relatives, art posters and collages of places you'd like to visit or live. You could put quotes or sayings or affirmations on miracles, heavenly experiences, and synchronicity. This is where you can put photos of dead friends or family members and asked for a little help from the other side.

Note:
*If your prosperity is the kitchen make sure all your burners on the stove are working properly, make sure your oven is working, if you need to clean it...then do it...
make sure the water coming out the pipes is good with a nice flow.. NO LEAKS...
and keep the kitchen clean.
*If your prosperity is in the bathroom make sure the water coming out of the pipes is good with a nice flow, NO LEAKS. Make sure your toilet seat stays down when not in use (you could also plug the sink and bathtub drains when not in use if you wanted)- otherwise you are “flushing” your prosperity, literally, down the toilet. Another is to keep the shower curtain drawn or it goes down the bathtub drain! Put red tape or ribbon on the drains going from the sinks, toilet, etc. Set your intent and have very specific goals. Make a list and post it. Clean the mirror often for clarity! And lastly, KEEP IT CLEAN!

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The Western Guide to Feng Shui for Prosperity
By Terah Kathryn Collins
ISBN#: 1561708135
This is a good basic primer and can start on your prosperity.

By the way, this is not to be confused with this book:
The Western Guide to Feng Shui: Creating Balance, Harmony, and Prosperity in Your Environment
By Terah Kathryn Collins
ISBN#: 1561703249
This might be a perfectly fine book. I just don't have it and can't say one thing or the other about it. I am only putting it here so it is not confused with the first book. They both have prosperity in it.

The Western Guide to Feng Shui: Room by Room (Feng Shui)
By Terah Kathryn Collins
ISBN#: 1561705683

Clear Your Clutter with Feng Shui
By Karen Kingston
ISBN#: 0767903595

Creating Sacred Space with Feng Shui
By Karen Kingston
ISBN#: 074991601X
It's really inspiring!

Sacred Space
by Denise Linn
ISBN#: 034539769X

Space Clearing A-Z : How to Use Feng Shui to Purify and Bless Your Home
by Denise Linn
ISBN#: 1561707503

And any other books by Denise Linn.

Feng Shui at Work : Arranging Your Work Space to Achieve Peak Performance and Maximum Profit
by Kirsten Lagatree
ISBN#: 037575010X

Compass:
The Complete Illustrated Guide to Feng Shui: How to Apply the Secrets of Chinese Wisdom for Health, Wealth and Happiness
by Lillian Too
Lillian Too is the most popular author in Compass school Feng Shui.

But first go to the INTERNET. There are tons and tons of information about feng shui on the INTERNET. Lillian Too has a major website http://www.lillian-too.com/ along with Terah Kathryn Collins http://www.wsfs.com/teachers.htm although hers is more of a Feng Shui school to becoming a practitioner in the CA area.

Some other Good Sites:
http://circle-of-light.com/fengshui/
Residents of Minnesota: Red Rabbit Feng Shui http://www.redrabbitfengshui.com/index.htm
Lucky Wonders- A place to purchase Feng Shui Related Items
http://www.luckywonders.com/FengShuiProducts.htm

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Your stuff is a reflection of who you are. Your stuff also "owns you" as much as you own it. It takes a certain energy to maintain your stuff (if you have too much stuff you will oftentimes neglect it which isn't good.) Having a lot of clutter can be a reflection of things going on in your inner life. When you have a lot of extra stuff (clutter) oftentimes it is out of fear of want, you simply cannot throw something away "just in case" something unexpected goes wrong. Sometimes this is confirmed by needing something the moment you pitch it. This is a poverty mentality. This is also related to overeating as well.

Also, when you clear clutter it leaves room for better things to come into your life. When things are uncluttered it's a reflection of care and use. If you think others would like your stuff, give it away, but if it's trash throw it away!!!

Feng Shui is the result of Chinese culture making consistent observations of the relationship between placements of things and living well. Most cultures have a variation of feng shui but it hasn't been codified to the extent of feng shui.

So look all through your house, if there is anything that doesn't work (broken lamp, broken radio, broken this, broken that, etc) either take it to the shop and get it fixed or throw it out. Just get it out of your house.
And get rid of the clutter. Start throwing stuff out.

If you don't love it and you don't use it then get rid of it.
You will clear the space for better things to come into your life.

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~ "God alone is my substance, my supply and my ever present abundant support."
~ “My healthy, loving family is enjoying the abundance we are receiving”
~ Today I choose thoughts that nourish and support me. ~Louise Hay

Gratitude and Appreciation
~ Any and all compliments can be handled by simply saying "Why, thank you".
~ Appreciation is a wonderful thing; it makes what is excellent in others belong to us as well. (Voltaire)
~ Be glad of life because it gives you the chance to love and to work and to play and to look at the stars. (Henry Van Dyke)
~ The best and most beautiful things in this world cannot be seen or even heard, but must be felt with the heart. (Helen Keller)
~ Blessed are those who can give without remembering and take without forgetting.
~ Don't ever save anything for a special occasion. Being alive is the special occasion.
~ Dream as if you'll live forever. Live as if you'll die today. (James Dean)
~ Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go, be what you want to be; you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.
~ Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things. (Robert Brault)
~ Even if happiness forgets you a little bit, never completely forget about it. (Jacques Prévert)
~ Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day.
~ Every exit is an entrance somewhere else. (Tom Stoppard)
~ Every night ask yourself - what has this day brought me, and what have I given it?
~ Every now and then it's good to pause in our pursuit of happiness to just be happy.
~ Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it. (William Arthur Ward)
~ For every joy that passes, something beautiful remains.
~ For today and its blessings, I owe the world an attitude of gratitude. (Clarence E. Hodges)
~ God gave you a gift of 86,400 seconds today. Have you used one to say "thank you?" (William A. Ward)
~ Gratitude is a duty which ought to be paid, but which none have a right to expect. (Jean Jacques Rousseau)
~ Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow. (Melody Beattie)
~ Happiness comes of the capacity to feel deeply, to enjoy simply, to think freely, to risk life, to be needed. (Storm Jameson)
~ Hem your blessings with thankfulness so they don't unravel.
~ How happy a person is depends upon the depth of his gratitude. (John ******)
~ If you don't have all the things you want, be grateful for the things you don't have that you wouldn't want.
~ In a full heart there is room for everything, and in an empty heart there is room for nothing. (Antonio Porchia)
~ In ordinary life we hardly realize that we receive a great deal more than we give, and that it is only with gratitude that life becomes rich. (Dietrich Bonhoeffer)
~ Keep your face to the sunshine and you cannot see the shadows. (Helen Keller)
~ Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom. (Marcel Proust)
~ Let us rise up and be thankful, for if we didn't learn a lot today, at least we learned a little, and if we didn't learn a little, at least we didn't get sick, and if we got sick, at least we didn't die; so, let us all be thankful. (Buddha)
~ Simple pleasures are life's greatest treasures.
~ A single joy can scatter a hundred griefs.
~ Some days there won't be a song in your heart. Sing anyway. (Emory Austin)
~ To feel rich, count the things you have that money can't buy.
~ We can complain because rose bushes have thorns or rejoice because thorn bushes have roses.
~ We tend to forget that happiness doesn't come as a result of getting something we don't have, but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have. (Frederick Keonig)
~ When you arise in the morning, give thanks for the morning light, for your life and strength. Give thanks for your food, and the joy of living. If you see no reason for giving thanks, the fault lies with yourself. (Tecumseh, Shawnee Chief)
~ Who knows whether one happy moment of love or the joy of breathing or walking on a bright morning and smelling the fresh air, is not worth all the suffering and effort which life implies. (Erich Fromm)

Acceptance
~ Blessed are they who can laugh at themselves...for they will never cease to be amused.
~ Cooperation is doing with a smile what you have to do anyway.
~ The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything, they just make the most of everything that comes their way.
~ If you don't like something change it; if you can't change it, change the way you think about it. (Mary Engelbreit)
~ In the depth of winter I finally learned that there was in me an invincible summer. (Albert Camus)
~ It's comforting to know that whatever happens tomorrow will have absolutely no effect on today.
~ It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.
~ No one can go back and make a brand new start, but anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.
~ Not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced.
~ Until you make peace with who you are, you'll never be content with what you have
~ We have no right to ask when sorrow comes, "Why did this happen to me?" unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way.
~ We have to learn to be our own best friends because we fall too easily into the trap of being our own worst enemies. (Roderick Thorpe)
~ What's meant to be will always find a way
~ You may not have had a wonderful childhood, but at least it's over!

Kindness
~ Be kind, remember everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle. (T.H. Thompson)
~ Be kind to unkind people...they need it most.
~ Always put yourself in others' shoes; if it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too.
~ Beginning today, treat everyone you meet as if they were going to be dead by midnight. Extend to them all the care, kindness and understanding you can muster, and do it with no thought of any reward. Your life will never be the same again. (Og Mandino)
~ Being considerate of others will take your children further in life than any college degree. (Marian Wright Edelman)
~ The best test of good manners is being able to put up pleasantly with bad ones. (Farmers Almanac)
~ The best way to cheer yourself up is to try to cheer somebody else up. (Mark Twain)
~ Dare to reach out your hand into the darkness, to pull another hand into the light. (Norman B. Rice)
~ Deeds of kindness are equal in weight to all the commandments. (Talmud)
~ A friendly look, a kindly smile, one good act, and life's worthwhile.
~ Give the world the best you have and the best will come back to you.
~ He who sees a need and waits to be asked for help is as unkind as if he had refused it. (Dante)
~ I shall pass through this world but once...Any good therefore that I can do, or any kindness that I can show to any other human being, let me do it now. Let me not defer or neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again.
~ If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion. (Dalai Lama)
~ Kindness in words creates confidence,
Kindness in thinking creates profoundness,
Kindness in giving creates love. (Lao-Tse)
~ Kindness is more important than wisdom, and the recognition of this is the beginning of wisdom. (Theodore Isaac, Rubin)
~ Kindness is tenderness. Kindness is love, but perhaps greater than love. Kindness is good will. Kindness says, "I want you to be happy." (Randolph Ray)
~ The manner of giving is worth more than the gift. (Pierre Corneille)
~ Manners are a sensitive awareness of the feelings of others. If you have that awareness, you have good manners, no matter which fork you use. (Emily Post)
~ The only people with whom you should try to get even are those who have helped you. (John E. Southard)
~ Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can't help them, at least don't hurt them. (The Dalai Lama)
~ Tenderness and kindness are not signs of weakness and despair, but manifestations of strength and resolution. (Kahlil Gibran)
~ Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around. (Leo Buscaglia)
~ Today I bent the truth to be kind, and I have no regret, for I am far surer of what is kind than I am of what is true. (Robert Brault)
~What matters is not the difference between believing and not believing but the difference between caring and not caring. (Abbe Pire)
~ You cannot do a kindness too soon, for you never know how soon it will be too late. (Ralph Waldo Emerson)
~ You can't live a perfect day without doing something for someone who will never be able to repay you. (John Wooden)

Optimism
~ Clouds may come, but clouds must go, and they have a silver lining,
for beyond them all, you know, the sun or moon is shining.

~ Don't worry about the world coming to an end today. It is already tomorrow in Australia. (Charles Schultz)
~ A happy person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances, but rather a person with a certain set of attitudes. (Hugh Downs)
~ Just because something doesn't do what you planned it to do doesn't mean it's useless. (Thomas Alva Edison)
~ Life is short, and it's up to you to make it sweet. (Sadie Delany)
~ Never tell a young person that anything cannot be done. God may have been waiting centuries for somebody ignorant enough of the impossible to do that very thing. (John Andrew Holmes)
~ On staring out at a gloomy day: First you must realize that it is the day that is gloomy, not you.(Nora Gallagher)

Perfectionism
~ Aim for success, not perfection. Never give up your right to be wrong, because then you will lose the ability to learn new things and move forward with your life. (Dr. David M. Burns)
~ Better to do something imperfectly than to do nothing flawlessly. (Robert Schuller)
~ Perfection, fortunately, is not the only alternative to mediocrity. A more sensible alternative is excellence. Striving for excellence is stimulating and rewarding; striving for perfection - in practically anything - is both neurotic and futile. (Edwin Bliss)
~ Remember that fear always lurks behind perfectionism. Confronting your fears and allowing yourself the right to be human can, paradoxically, make you a far happier and more productive person. (Dr. David M. Burns)

Hopes & Dream
~ "Be not afraid of life. Believe that life is worth living and your belief will help create the fact.” -William James (American Philosopher 1842-1910)
~ “There are always flowers for those who want to see them.” -Henri Matisse
~ You cannot change the past, but the future is where you have to spend the rest of your life, so make sure the future is something to look forward to.
~ By small and simple means, great things come to pass.
~ Dreams can come true if you take the time to think about what you want in life.
~ The ideals which have always shown before me and filled me with the joy of living are goodness, beauty and truth. (Albert Einstein)
~ If one dream should fall and break into a thousand pieces, never be afraid to pick one of those pieces up and begin again. (Flavia Weedn in Flavia and the Dream Maker)
~ If you can imagine it, you can achieve it.
If you can dream it, you can become it.
Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it. (Goethe)

~ The indispensable first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: decide what you want. (Ben Stein)
~ Everything that is done in the world is done by hope. (Martin Luther)
~ Hope costs nothing. (Colette)
~ Hope is faith holding out its hand in the dark. (George Iles)
~ Hope is itself a species of happiness, and, perhaps, the chief happiness which this world affords. (Samuel Johnson)
~ Hope is like a road in the country; there was never a road, but when many people walk on it, the road comes into existence. (Lin Yutang)
~ Hope is not a dream but a way of making dreams become reality. (L. J. Suenens)
~ Hope is putting faith to work when doubting would be easier.
~ If you do not hope, you will not find out what is beyond your hopes. (St. Clement)
~ In all things it is better to hope than to despair. (Johann Wolfgang von Goethe)
~ When the world says, "Give up," Hope whispers, "Try it one more time."
~ Woe to the man whose heart has not learned while young to hope, to love - and to put its trust in life. (Joseph Conrad)

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~ If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them. (Henry David Thoreau)
~ Don't be afraid to give your best to small jobs. Every time you conquer one it makes you that much stronger. If you do the little jobs well, the big ones will take care of themselves. (Dale Carnegie)
~ You may have to fight a battle more than once to win it. (Margaret Thatcher)
~ Whatever you do, or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius and power and magic in it. (Goethe)
~ Regrets and recriminations only hurt your soul. (Armand Hammer)
~ The best way to succeed in life is to act on the advice we give to others.
~ The next best thing to solving a problem is finding some humor in it. (Frank A. Clark)

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~ All of us have bad luck and good luck. The man who persists through the bad luck - who keeps right on going - is the man who is there when the good luck comes - and is ready to receive it. (Robert Collier)
~ Fortune brings in some boats that are not steered. (William Shakespeare)

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~ I was always looking outside myself for strength and confidence, but it comes from within. It is there all the time." – Anna Freud
~ The highest reward for a persons' toil is not what she gets for it, but rather what she becomes by it.
~ The vision must be followed by the venture. It is not enough to stare up the steps - we must step up the stairs. (***** Havner)
~ We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. (Aristotle)
~ What would you attempt to do if you knew you would not fail? (Dr. Robert Schuller)
~ When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left, and could say, "I used everything you gave me." (Erma Bombeck)
~ Many of our fears are tissue-paper-thin, and a single courageous step would carry us clear through them. (Brendan Francis)
~ The best way to break a bad habit is to drop it. (Leo Aikman)
~ "Pain is a part of being alive, and we need to learn that. Pain does not last forever, nor is it necessarily unbeatable, and we need to be taught that." – Harold Kushner
~ People need to know what you stand for, AND what you won't stand for.
~ Trust in yourself. Your perceptions are often more accurate than you are willing to believe. (Claudia Black)
~ Trust your hunches. They're usually based on facts filed away just below the conscious level. (Joyce Brothers)

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~ All Heaven and Earth are still, though not in sleep, But breathless, as we grow when feeling most. (Lord Byron)
~ Better be alone than in bad company. (Thomas Fuller)
~ Do not the most moving moments of our lives find us all without words? (Marcel Marceau)
~ Everybody should have his personal sounds to listen for - sounds that will make him exhilarated and alive or quite and calm.... One of the greatest sounds of them all - and to me it is a sound - is utter, complete silence. (Andre Kostelanetz)
~ Everyone needs their own spot. (Robert Whalen)
~ I would rather sit on a pumpkin, and have it all to myself, than be crowded on a velvet cushion. (Henry David Thoreau)
~ It is easy in the world to live after the world's opinions; it is easy in solitude to live after your own; but the great man is he who in the midst of the crowd keeps with perfect sweetness the independence of solitude. (Ralph Waldo Emerson)
~ Silence is our deepest nature, our home, our common ground, our peace. Silence reveals. Silence heals. (Gunilla Norris)
~ We need to find God, and he cannot be found in noise and restlessness. God is the friend of silence. See how nature--trees, flowers, grass- grows in silence; see the stars, the moon and the sun, how they move in silence...We need silence to be able to touch souls. (Mother Teresa)

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~ The ability to simplify means to eliminate the unnecessary so that the necessary may speak. (Hans Hofmann)
~ Our life is frittered away by detail. Simplify, simplify. (Henry David Thoreau)
~ Take time to love the little things
~ "I want a bathroom cabinet that contains one product that works instead of 47 hypothetical miracles...I want a closet with three outfits that fit instead of 100 miscellaneous pieces that require either altering them or me to wear...I want a refrigerator with one decent meat instead of nine cubic feet of expired dairy products and little condiment packets...I want a counter with one current paper instead of 30 old ones that I'm too guilty to throw out...I want a four-passenger car that has room for a passenger in it...and finally, I want a purse that contains no more than I actually need to get from here to there!!
I want more out of life, but I want less in it." (from the comic strip "Cathy")

~ Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could; some blunders and absurdities have crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; you shall begin it serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense. (Ralph Waldo Emerson)

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~ It is difficult to say what is impossible, for the dream of yesterday is the hope of today and the reality of tomorrow. (Robert H. Goddard)
~ We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are. (Anaïs Nin)
~ When you blame others, you give up your power to change. (Douglas Adams)
~ Our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.
~ Don't fool yourself that important things can be put off til tomorrow, they can be put off forever or not at all.

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~ Be careful. Be kind. Be yourself.
~ Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves. Live the questions now. Perhaps you will find them gradually, without noticing it, live along some distant day into the answer. (Rainer Maria Rilke)
~ Being free is no guarantee of happiness, but if you're unhappy, at least it will be on your own terms rather than someone else's.
~ The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change. (Carl Rodgers)
~ A hunch is creativity trying to tell you something.
~ If we all did the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves. (Thomas Alva Edison)
~ If you have two loaves of bread, give one to the poor, sell the other and buy hyacinths to feed your soul.
~ I'm at that point in the day where I'm tired of myself, she said, so if you don't mind, I'm going to be someone else until bedtime. We had a lovely time together, my new friend and I. (Brian Andreas)
~ In my day, we didn't have self-esteem, we had self-respect, and no more of it than we had earned. (Jane Haddam)
~ In the bigger scheme of things, the universe is not asking us to do something, the universe is asking us to be something. And that's a whole different thing. (Lucille Clifton)
~ It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye. (from The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint Exupéry)
~ No matter where you go or what you do, you live your entire life within the confines of your head. (Terry Josephson)
~ No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. (Eleanor Roosevelt)
~ Other people's opinion of you does not have to become your reality. (Les Brown)
~ We cannot direct the wind but we can adjust the sails.
~ We do not believe in ourselves until someone reveals that deep inside us something is valuable, worth listening to, worthy of our trust, sacred to our touch. Once we believe in ourselves we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight or any experience that reveals the human spirit. (ee cummings)
~ When you are content to be simply yourself and don't compare or compete, everybody will respect you. (Lao-Tzu)
~ You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe deserve your love and affection. (Buddha)
~ You have to leave the city of your comfort and go into the wilderness of your intuition. What you'll discover will be wonderful. What you'll discover is yourself. (Alan Alda)

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Yay, a new thread! Thanks for all of those great beginning posts, Ambrose.

I'm still new at this; I'm impatiently waiting for my first feng shui books to arrive. I have a question though: what are some good purchases for someone who is wanting to start feng shui?

Currently I'm mainly going off the knowledge I have from a speech I heard last semester. I remember it being mentioned that it is important to have a crystal hanging in front of a window, is that true? If so, I'll browse around and look for a good deal on crystals. Also, isn't there something good about wind chimes? Should I buy one of those too?

Is there anything else I might need?

TIA!
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Yay, a new thread! Thanks for all of those great beginning posts, Ambrose.

I'm still new at this; I'm impatiently waiting for my first feng shui books to arrive. I have a question though: what are some good purchases for someone who is wanting to start feng shui?

Currently I'm mainly going off the knowledge I have from a speech I heard last semester. I remember it being mentioned that it is important to have a crystal hanging in front of a window, is that true? If so, I'll browse around and look for a good deal on crystals. Also, isn't there something good about wind chimes? Should I buy one of those too?

Is there anything else I might need?

TIA!
In terms of books and good purchases- we usually reccommend the books located in post 3. The first book is the most popular for beginners. Although I myself don't have any. I learned simply by sifting through all three threads- which is what probed me to make this new thread.

I honestly would wait on the crystals and focus more on clutter, color and how things are arranged before adding any of those things. I still need a Toad God for my wealth area along with crystals and stuff--- heck I don't have a single mirror in my apt aside from the bathroom. And I'd really like one in my wealth area to perhaps enhance it.

Tonight I just finished moving the computers into the Knowledge area. We finally have our family area clear so we can hang family pictures. I still have both bedrooms to do before I even think of purchasing anything like that.

It takes awhile- and being new at it you might want to hold off of the little details.

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Just wanted to share a Feng Shui success story -- the neighbor's dog has been bothering DD when she is outside playing (we live in the country -- this dog actually lives 1/2 a mile away and he STILL bothers her!). I bought a little octoganal mirror at the craft store ($1.39) and put it in the woods aimed at our neighbor's house (stuck it in a tree!). Dog has not been here since!! DH does not believe that is what did it, but he doesn't have to believe. . .
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Wow! Ambrose, that was a lot of work to get all that information out of the previous threads. You ROCK!!!
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Wow! Ambrose, that was a lot of work to get all that information out of the previous threads. You ROCK!!!
I agree. I was a feeling a little overwhelmed by the length of the older threads, the sheer volume of information. You extracted a beautiful synopsis. Thank you so much!

I still have to figure out my house, it's two stories (plus a basement) each floor is a different shape and size, the rooms are weirdly shaped, part of the house isn't used by my family (it's a rental apartment) etc. I'm still working on the clutter clearing aspect atm - although I've made a lot of progress!! There is still more to be done. Specifically, a big closet and my bedroom are both still too full of stuff and need to be gone through. And the basement - although it's weird - it's old, and very unfinished (dirt floor in parts, pipes and stuff hanging overhead, apparently home to a zillion spiders although I never see them, but I do see their webs, etc.) anyway, there is stuff down there that has been there since before I bought the house and who knows how long before that.

So far, I've gotten the apartment (was a mess) and the kids' rooms, as well as the living room and kitchen/dining room, under control and feeling pretty good. Also the garage - mostly - (also was a big mess, crammed) - and the outside is much better than it had been for a long time. I was married to a major pack rat for several years, beyond anything I could imagine. I struggle with similar issues myself, but at least in my case, I know I don't want the stuff!

It feels so good to have everything cleared out, our home is so comfortable and easy to clean now, and it's such a pleasure to be here! (This is definitely already true of the room I'm sitting in now, and a bit of a LoA plug toward the reality that the less-evolved parts of the house are moving in the direction of clutterlessness!)
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That's fantastic stuff, I've just gone and relocated the mirror from our bedroom into the laundry cupboard and added herb plants to the laundry n top of our tall deepfreeze which is really bright and warm with the afternoon sun - I've been wondering where to set up some plants and the suggestion was perfect (I haven't checked whether it's in the creativity/children area - but assume that it doesn't matter that way around?).

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wow - i can't wait to spend some time here! i had thought we needed a feng shui clearing house - but i was far too intimidated to take it on myself!


thank you thank you thank you ambrose for your hard work and diligence!
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I just came back for another look around, and saw that you added more quotes -



Thank you SO much for this thread!

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Wow!!!!! Thank you so much Ambrose. I just started reading through the old thread[s] yesterday and :

I have a question ( of course);
My house is shaped like an L. Imagine a FAT L with equal sides, and then stick a square on the inside half of the top of the L. That is, the house was a fat L and then a former owner added a room. So how do i lay the bagua over it without including the yard (which extends from the inside corner of the L out beyond the ends of the L)?

Also, according to the compass model (although Im focusing on form, so maybe I should just ignore what Im about to describe ), the back of my house and my birth year are the same (yay) but my front door faces the direction of Death (boo). Cant move my door - should I just ignore this and focus on form, or is there anything I can do to ameliorate that.

Funny, Ive been thinking about painting our door red (does brick red count). There are MANY red doors in my area (new mexico) and they are so beautiful.

Thank you again Ambrose!!!!!!!!!!!! Especially for the LoA connection (all the quotes!) Now we need a cheat sheet like that for LoA

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WOOT!!! Awesome! That is so great to hear!

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I agree. I was a feeling a little overwhelmed by the length of the older threads, the sheer volume of information. You extracted a beautiful synopsis. Thank you so much!

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I still have to figure out my house, it's two stories (plus a basement) each floor is a different shape and size, the rooms are weirdly shaped, part of the house isn't used by my family (it's a rental apartment) etc. I'm still working on the clutter clearing aspect atm - although I've made a lot of progress!! There is still more to be done. Specifically, a big closet and my bedroom are both still too full of stuff and need to be gone through. And the basement - although it's weird - it's old, and very unfinished (dirt floor in parts, pipes and stuff hanging overhead, apparently home to a zillion spiders although I never see them, but I do see their webs, etc.) anyway, there is stuff down there that has been there since before I bought the house and who knows how long before that.

So far, I've gotten the apartment (was a mess) and the kids' rooms, as well as the living room and kitchen/dining room, under control and feeling pretty good. Also the garage - mostly - (also was a big mess, crammed) - and the outside is much better than it had been for a long time. I was married to a major pack rat for several years, beyond anything I could imagine. I struggle with similar issues myself, but at least in my case, I know I don't want the stuff!

It feels so good to have everything cleared out, our home is so comfortable and easy to clean now, and it's such a pleasure to be here! (This is definitely already true of the room I'm sitting in now, and a bit of a LoA plug toward the reality that the less-evolved parts of the house are moving in the direction of clutterlessness!)
Awesome job on the Decluttering progress that you HAVE made- knowing that you've done that can motivate you to continue! If you felt like linking a sketch to your floor plan layout (including what rooms your basement is under) when you feel you want to know what your form placements are- just let us know! There are many of us here to help you!

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That's fantastic stuff, I've just gone and relocated the mirror from our bedroom into the laundry cupboard and added herb plants to the laundry n top of our tall deepfreeze which is really bright and warm with the afternoon sun - I've been wondering where to set up some plants and the suggestion was perfect (I haven't checked whether it's in the creativity/children area - but assume that it doesn't matter that way around?).
I don't think it matters- because plants in and of themselves (personally) to me mean life and vitality and on going energy. So IMO that would be good for ANY area.


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Wow!!!!! Thank you so much Ambrose. I just started reading through the old thread[s] yesterday and :

Your Welcome.

I have a question ( of course);
My house is shaped like an L. Imagine a FAT L with equal sides, and then stick a square on the inside half of the top of the L. That is, the house was a fat L and then a former owner added a room. So how do i lay the bagua over it without including the yard (which extends from the inside corner of the L out beyond the ends of the L)?

Also, according to the compass model (although Im focusing on form, so maybe I should just ignore what Im about to describe ), the back of my house and my birth year are the same (yay) but my front door faces the direction of Death (boo). Cant move my door - should I just ignore this and focus on form, or is there anything I can do to ameliorate that.

I think I would focus more on form that the compass. Do you have an ability to sketch out your house layout on Photoshop or Paint Shop Pro or something? That way you could upload it to a place like Photobucket and link it to us. I know some of us do better by seeing a visual when it comes to giving advice to people.

Funny, Ive been thinking about painting our door red (does brick red count). There are MANY red doors in my area (new mexico) and they are so beautiful.

I think brick red would be fine. And that is so neat that you were already thinking about your door and that color came to you!

Thank you again Ambrose!!!!!!!!!!!! Especially for the LoA connection (all the quotes!) Now we need a cheat sheet like that for LoA

jessica
As for the Cheat Sheet for LoA- I was actually thinking of beginning one on my computer later today. : I found that in Spirituality there are 35 Threads involving LoA NOT including Treasure Mapping, Feng Shui, etc. So I have a bit of work cut out for me- But I am willing to do it.

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Wow, wow wow! Ambrose, thank you for taking the time to compile all of the information you have in those first posts!!!
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I'm thrilled to see a fresh thread! Thanks so much Ambrose!!

I've got to dig out my books and take some time to read all the stuff above to get me back on track.

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Subbing to the new thread. Thanks Ambrose!:

Wish I could get rid of the mirrors in my bedroom but DH is very against it so I'm balancing the overabundance of water and wood elements with metal elements right now.

Otherwise kind of quiet on my FS front. I am having a yardsale next weekend to get rid of some clutter. Most of it I've already taken to Goodwill but my neighbor is having a sale so I figured I'd piggy back off her advertising.

Hope you guys are having fun with what's let to declutter.

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Okay, okay, I'm all motivated and stuff now.

Just did a quicky kitchen purge, bagged up a bunch of stuff that my IL's left behind when they moved out (just food and stuff we probably won't use) and I feel better. It's something I've been meaning to do anyway. My house is getting waaaaaay ahead of me. And of course when it gets so cluttered and messy I get too stressed to fix it So, thanks for getting me started and I'll maybe be back with all sorts of annoying beginner questions.

Right now I'll just focus on getting the place purged, picked up, etc...

Love all the quotes BTW
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Could I have some suggestions please?

I have just put my house plan up on my computer and overlaid the bagua. I was pleasantly surprised to see that my colourings and placements of things are pretty much spot on and that's just been through my own intuition - it changes frequently, but I feel I'm getting pretty close to where things should be.

I have a shower/toilet in my fame/reputation and love/marriage sections (it's a very narrow room with no windows - basically a toilet and then opposite a small shower). Can anyone suggest some remedies for this? Do I make the room 'disappear' by using mirrors? If so, do I put one on the outside door (which reflects into my laundry) or do I put one (or many) internally? Do I beautify the room (it's currently just very functional and the walls are beige with white fittings) - nothing decorative is in there at all, including no towels.

Our other bathroom (bath, toilet and handbasin) falls in the marriage/love section and this is currently a restful pale green, has a plant, dark purple/aubergine towels and a few pretty earthy type things (a couple of purple candles, patterned ceramic container for the toothbrushes, bamboo square things on the wall, cane basket for face cloths/shampoos etc) - I like the feel of it, the toilet in there is divided with a half partition. I will start to keep the lid on the toilet down - but any other suggestions?

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Ok, Im starting to declutter, but am also curious about the bagua. How would I lay the grid over a house shaped like an L ?(the front door is on the bottom right). Imagine a building shaped like an L, and the yard is in the space between the two legs L < right there LOL.
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I had a feng shui consultation this weekend. I am fixing a lot of 'leaks' of chi in my house. I knew I felt something.....

one area I'm boosting is my own fame--putting some elephant grass in pots outside. I already have red accents.

and my bathroom is in my relationship and I had very little in way of decoration in that room. just nuts and bolts. I went shopping yesterday I am adding some pink/peach color accents. I also found some cute buckets from pottery barn. I got two (pairs of course for relationship). and I'm putting my cotton balls and cute tips in them.
I saw this great king and queen at Pier One.. I may return to get them...hmm...

I also am doing a huge spring cleaning.

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Cool Tracy - what was fishgirl like in person?
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This is some great free information from Terah Collin's site:

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When sorting through your possessions, ask yourself these questions:

1. Do I love it?

2. Do I need it?

3. Does it reflect who I am now in my life?

4. Does it act as an environmental affirmation for me?

5. What positive and/or negative thoughts, memories, or emotions do I associate with it?

6. Does it need to be fixed or repaired, and am I willing to do so now?

7. If I moved tomorrow, would I choose to take it with me?

8. If it is time to let it go, am I going to sell, lend or give it away, and when?

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DIRECTIONAL SLEEPING

Head going to NORTH: Enhances physical manifestations and balance

Head going to SOUTH: Enhances ability to remember dreams and develop intuition

Head going to EAST: Speeds life up (good for depression and sluggishness)

Head going to WEST: Slows life down (good for stress and hyperactivity)

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FENG SHUI CH’I ENHANCERS

1. Art – Paintings, sculptures, collages, collections, textiles.

2. Colors – Surround yourself with the ones you love!

Elemental Color Associations –
Wood = Blues & Greens
Fire = Reds
Earth = Yellows & Earth tones
Metal = White & Pastels
Water = Black & Dark tones

3. Crystals – Round and faceted to circulate Ch’i

4. Lighting – Electric, candles, oil, natural sunlight

5. Living Things – Plants, flowers, animals

6. Mirrors – In general, the bigger, the better, except in bedroom

7. Objects of Nature – Rocks, shells, potpourri, seeds, pods, etc.

8. Sound Makers – Wind chimes, bells, music, instruments

9. Water Features – Fountains, waterfalls, ponds, birdbaths, etc.

10. Wind Dancers – Mobiles, whirligigs, flags, banners, weathervanes

Live with what you love!

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Also, a fun quiz from that sight: Five Element Assessment Questionairre

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Cool Tracy - what was fishgirl like in person?
Loved her!

and I really dug the success intent. A special thing you can request.

I HIGHLY, HIGHLY recommend her for anyone interested in Feng Shui consulation....and she will do it cyberally!!!! Many of her clients are from all over the world.

google fishgirl feng shui and you'll find her!

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