I had a miscarriage a little over 8 weeks ago I had a period about 4 weeks after the miscarriage and just got a positive test results. I am a little worried that it happened too soon--we were NOT trying, and I am wondering "when" I should tell my kids- I was 8-9 weeks along when I had my last miscarriage and the kids (ages 10,7 and 4)were all devastated. We had, had our ultrasound at 8 weeks and the baby's heartbeat was strong and the doc told us we were out of the "danger" zone with less then a 10% chance of miscarrying- I miscarried days later..... I'm finding it really hard to get emotional invested this time and am wondering when I will "REALLY" feel like I'm pregnant, does that make sense? I don't want to spent the next few weeks/months worried instead of celebrating but it's hard......
Oh and I've also been having little stomach cramps- I've been thinking the last week or so that I was about to start my period, and much more discharge (all white) then usual- I don' t think this happened with my other children....I'm also no spring chicken either
the discharge is normal i got it really bad with this one to where i had thought my water was breaking and i want to say i am so sorry for your loss