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#1 of 140 Old 03-30-2009, 05:49 AM - Thread Starter
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At 2:30 in the morning of 19th March, 2009, Aurora quietly slipped away from us. Although her fight was not long, it was valiant, and we were proud of her. She was tired. She is missed, but we are not sad, we know that this is what is best for her. the past several days have gone by in a blur. Aurora's presence was great, and there is now a hole.

Aurora had a good life, and we're happy that her almost-four years were full. We know that she's up in heaven waiting to be her baby brother's (or sister's) guardian angel.
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the biggest of hugs to you and your family.


RIP Aurora.


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Oh dear sweet woman......how I wish you could really feel that.
There are no right words...so just know that the souls of hundreds of mothers will ache with you when they read this.
Peace for your family and precious child.

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so sorry for your loss

Me, my Husband and three little Boys! 7, 5 and 7 1/2 months! Life is good!
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I am so sorry for your loss, mama.

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I'm so sorry for your loss. You are a very strong mama to have navigated these past few difficult months.

DS, 10/07. Allergies: peanut, egg, wheat. We've added dairy back in. And taken it back out again. It causes sandpaper skin with itchy patches and thrashing during sleep. Due w/ #2 late April, 2012.

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I'm so sorry for your loss.

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I am so very sorry for your loss.

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I am so sorry for your loss, a loss that no mother should have to experience. I will hold Aurora in my heart and mind today.
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I am so very sorry that you had to say goodbye to your little girl.


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Your love for your daughter will live on long after your good-bye!
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I'm very sorry for your loss.

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Oh dear sweet woman......how I wish you could really feel that.
There are no right words...so just know that the souls of hundreds of mothers will ache with you when they read this.
Peace for your family and precious child.
Yes...my soul is aching because no mom should lose their child

I am going upstairs and lighting my candle for Aurora.....

So sorry mama.
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I'm so sorry for your loss.

I'm Deborah, mama to Aidan, 11/02, Sean, 9/04 (my T21 SuperBoy), and Eleanor, 8/08.
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