She was born with "facial difference" or simply put, she was born looking like a stroke victim on half her face. She is still a beautiful little girl and I have always made sure she knows that. I don't know who has been talking to her, we just spent 2 days at the family reunion and I have a feeling I know who was telling her she's not pretty or beautiful
This morning after I fixed her hair I lifted her up to see in the mirror how pretty it was and she just came unglued and freaked out screaming "I hate it! I hate it! I hate the mirror!" I asked her why because she's so beautiful in it and she was sobbing "I'm not! I'm not!" She was just in tears thinking she was not pretty. She just turned 3 last month, I am so not ready to deal with this
I figured we could at least make it to kindergarten before we had to start dealing with mean little kids teasing her
I called and talked to my aunt and she doesn't think anyone would have told her that and she said no one fessed up but who is going to admit to telling a 3 yr old there ugly? All I know is it broke my heart just as much as it broke my dd's