I'm on my way to bed- last couple of days crazy with school.
After he found out all the reviews had been given, he emailed his boss. She tried to set up a meeting, he said he just wants to confirm the status of the raise. She said he needs the official review and can't talk about it on the phone. Fine. He said he needs HR present, then changed his mind and told her he just wants the review ASAP. Well, now she's decided she wants a meeting w/HR, dh, her and her boss. This can't be good- what good can possibly come from this situation? NONE. So, he emailed HR and bosslady's boss stating he hopes this isn't a meeting to discuss the discrimination, only the review. He wants the review. He doesn't want to discuss the discrimination w/everyone in the room b/c it will end up with a bunch of accusations and he said/she said pissing contest stuff.
So, he has a meeting w/HR alone (she has a question for him, she said-no idea what) tomorrow (Wed) and with boss, boss's boss, and HR on Thursday. He's then off on Fri. He's going to tell them he's filing the complaint and if they end up doing the right thing, he'll drop it, but until then- he has to proceed.
Students return to school tomorrow, (I've been getting set up all week) so I probably won't be back to check in until Friday, but I will post as soon as I can.
Thanks for thinking of us, I appreciate the support.
Michelle -mom to Katlyn 4/00 , Jake 3/02, and Seth 5/04