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Were I you I would not get an abortion. The baby you are carrying now won't be born for 9 months - that's a really long time.
My son is classically autistic and all of my kids are very close in age (none of them are even 2 years apart.) He has had more life-changing moments of joy from his siblings than I can count.
The baby you are carrying now will be so close in age to your 9mo that they will be fast friends. Soon the difficult parts of babyhood will pass after the new baby is born and it will be easier - they will play with each other. The first hard time is so very short in the grand scheme of life - one and a half to two years of the new baby's 80-year life...
I hope you don't decide to abort.
Can I also gently suggest that if you posted this here, you probably know in your heart what the right decision is.
I hope for your sake that you find peace in whatever decision you make, and I hope for your baby's sake that you decide to keep him/her.
Busy Mom raising 5 kiddos, 7, 6, 5, 2 and a brand new bundle!! (5/15/11)
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