I love your message, Tammy! Those are all good suggestions. Mandie, since you have an older child, you might put a note on there about childcare - it might be helpful to either give you time alone with your eldest, or maybe better yet, take them for field trips out of the house.
Do NOT fall into the trap of 1) visitors who overstay their welcome or 2) hold the babies to allow you to vacuum, etc. Your job for the first few weeks PP at least are to recover and park yourself on the couch and nurse if you're breastfeeding and so inclined. My twins and I spent so much time there in our first few weeks I'm surprised I don't still have an EZ2Nurse imprint. I learned to sleep with it and the babes around me.
Food was a big issue for us. One of my mom's friends brought a full dinner once a week for four weeks. It was fantastic! There's never enough help on that score.
On the other hand, my aunt got me a night nurse for a couple nights a week for a couple weeks. She was nice and maybe helped out a little, but it was a waste for us.
It's all going to be OK. If you're lucky, you'll have some good memories of snuggling babies. Before you know it you'll be longing for more (there are moments when I am!)