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I think you probably can scrape together enough time to kick your husband in the head every day if he continues saying such ludicrous things to a woman with 5-month-old twins and no help.
: wife to James, MoM to R and D (Aug 2007) and E (Nov 2009) and Y (April 2012)
out of curiosity...
i stay home with my 5 month-old boys, i have no help whatsoever. i also do all of the cooking + laundry + keep the house as clean as i can. i have a business that i work on as much as possible. my husband thinks that i should be working on it more - that i'm not doing enough. i am up with the boys all n night, "wake up" around 7-8, put them down around 9pm, and clean until 11, then stay up until 1am-ish to have some time to sprnd w/hubby. i am fine with it, except for when he has the balls to tell me i'm not doing enough.
so, what do you do? do you get any appreciation? etc... i am beyond pissed right now, wondering if i am perhaps really not doing enough??
Catholic homeschooling mom of 5 - a teenager, a kindergartener, twin boys and a tiny princess. Follow the Adventures!
spread a lot of love
Mostly I take my kids out. To the park, library, to meet friends, to museums, kid gyms, the beach, etc. My "job" right now is to be there for them, to show them the world and to have fun with them. I feel so lucky to do this and I feel that they are getting such a gift. They are *so* happy when we are out and about learning.
My house, my kitchen (nice meals), my DH, and a paying job CAN WAIT 3 years until they are all in school all day.
That's all I have to say about that. Please get some extra sleep tonight and tell your DH we said so...