After you had your twins, what was the best help you got? Or the help that you needed the most? I've got a 4 year old and a 3 month old of my own to take care of, so I'm not too sure what I can do.
I do plan to make her meals - I was thinking of doing one a week for a while - how many weeks/months after your twins were born was that helpful to you?
Three big girls (10) + (almost 9!);
One little boy (6) and a full on toddler (8/12) born with TAPVR (repaired at 6 days old).
: wife to James, MoM to R and D (Aug 2007) and E (Nov 2009) and Y (April 2012)
With the size of her family, I'd guess she would also appreciate some laundry help. Even if you just folded it, or had a neighbor teen do it. Four dc under 5 means a mass amount of daily laundry, I'd imagine.
Missionary, birth-worker, midwifery student
Mama to DD (9yr), DS (3yr), & UC twin DDs (5yr)