|And, although not a question, the statement that drives me craziest is someone saying "I had my two 12/15 months apart. It was just like having twins." While I am sure having such young babes so close together was indeed hard, it is NOT liking having twins. You don't have to learn to nurse two with floppy heads at the same time, two teething at the same time, two crying that sad newborn cry at the same time, two learning to sit/crawl/walk at the same time. Even if just a year apart, at least you can set the older babe down for a few minutes if you need to.
EXACTLY! I hate this comparison, too!
Stupid question I've gotten a couple of times: So did you plan on having twins?