I'm a lurker on the multiples board lol (was preggy w/twins before and lost 1 to VTS and can't seem to get them off my mind)..but anyway, no, its not you, they ARE being VERY rude. People always seem to be negative about pregnancy in general, especially a multiple pregnancy. I can't remember what forum I was on but one chick said she was going somewhere with her twin toddler daughters and some woman said "Better you than me!"
WTF? I think multiples are TWICE the blessing,joy, laughs, hugs and kisses. Why are people so negative? My friend carried twins to term. She had a scheduled c section on week 37 and she did NOT have ANY problems what so ever.
I just got off the phone with my mom. She brought up future pregnancies to me (my last baby was stillborn a few months ago to uterine rupture) and while I'm optimistic and positive, I get sick of hearing her say "Well, I know a woman at work whose baby ...." Its looking like she won't be supportive the next time I get pregnant.
My advice to you is to surround yourself by POSITIVE
people. If someone says something negative, tell them you won't discuss the details of your pregnancy with people who have no faith in your pregnancy. During my next pregnancy, thats EXACTLY what I'm gonna tell everyone FROM the start. If you want to be negative and think the worst, tell someone else, not me, because I won't listen to it. You are pregnant and shouldn't have to be stressed over people's negative reactions. Congrats on your twins, you and everyone on here is lucky to have been twice blessed!