Just thinking of you, sending
: your way, and hoping that things are going better.
Obviously, your situation will differ from mine regarding gestational age, birthweight, etc. So all I'll throw in is the importance of trusting yourself
about whether your babes are doing OK or not.
We went through a stressful month of self-induced insanity after consulting public health and a lactation consultant. Seems DH and I were a bit slow on the up-take that the twins might be different than our other "monster-sized" babies.
Your comments about weighing after feeds, worrying about lengthy sleeps, and expending too much energy while nursing bring back lots of crappy, crappy memories.
May hours of peaceful, lovely-dovey nursing be yours!