Let me start by saying that I love my in laws. They are awesome ppl who have been such a support to us.
First it stunk becaue of the snow we couldn't get up to see them at all before Christmas. Which is no big deal ecause we can go later in the week. But it was B's first xmas and I know they wanted to see us all.
Then dh calls this afternoon to talk to my FIL. Now I have to give background....
My SIL is 19. When she was in high school she dated this guy for about 2 years. I guess something happened, he dumped her, and then went "nuts". He kept saying tht SIL was pg and that she was being a danger to the baby and he was the father. Well, I guess it got to the point of him harassing her so they got a restraining order. I guess even in court he claimed that she was pg with his baby. She claimed she wasn't and my FIL said there was evidence in the bathroom that she was having regular periods. She even volunteered to take a pg test but they decied they didn't need it.
So, they have the restraining order and everything is "fine". She starts dating this other guy Ben. She claims she is living with a friend, we all knew it to be Ben, but she was lying about it. My FIL is a minister adn this kind of thing ruins ministries or preachers. Anyway, se has become a real horses patoot over the last year. Just doing weird thigns and my FIL even found a letter to a friend about how she wishes her parents would just die because her life would be better.
So, thigns are going as sucky with her as possible. She called FIL this morning and said, we are coming around 2:30 did you buy me a present?? He said, of course. "Well, did you buy me more than one??" FIl is aggrivted but says nothing.
She comes to the house. My FIL bought my MIL a car for xamas. They have some money problems and he has been saving for months to buy her a very cheap but reliable older used car. Their current car has problems and he can't fix them on his own so it makes it hard for him. Since they bought the new car and since we wrecked ours on sunay they gave us their old car. SIL gets pissy about it. My MIL walks up to her, pats her n the tummy and says "When's the baby due?" FEBRUARY 1!!!!!
She lied in court about not being pg. She lied to everyone about everything. So, now she thinks things are great and my FIL is like, Um, you'll have to get a paternity test to prove that baby isn't your old bfs. She still doesn't think she will. BUt the guy they got the order against was teling the truth. She WAS pg then.
Then she says, oh yeah, Ben's parents went with us and we got married last week!!!
I am so pissed off. Her parents have done everything they could to take of her and she thinks that they are worthless. FIL has done everything in his power to provide for her an she thinks he has done nothing.
Needless to say my MIL is devistated. She was a firm APer for my dh and SIL. I know that SIL will be the opposite. I just feel terrible for them.
Oh, and Ben has never wanted to meet us. He hates my dh (lso named Benjamin) just because of lies that SIL has told about us.