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#1 of 15 Old 01-02-2005, 03:06 PM - Thread Starter
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I needed some sleep this morning. I am 22+ weeks pregnant, I have insomnia at night because of stress, little dude is not going to bed at night and nursing (but not getting much milk so it is annoying) all night long. So, when dude got up at 8 after pinching and scratching and nursing for 2 hours I told H that he was getting up with him, I desperately needed some sleep. (which he could tell since I am getting bad headaches and being a bitch!)

I wake up two hours later to little dude reeking. It seems H got up, grabbed his blanket (from his room, we don't sleep together) gave the babe a piece of bread, his juice cup, and turned on the cartoons. Then he went to sleep on the couch. So for the 2 hours of sleep I got, little dude was hungry, in a nighttime diaper reeking of pee, and his morning poop, cold, as he was wearing no pants or socks, and very lonely.

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Oh that just SUCKS
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My dh used to do this exact thing too. And he wonders why I don't like for him to watch ds alone much! DUH!
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Oh, God, i'm sorry!! Men can be so damn useless
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uhm yea. And he is still lying on the couch.

I can't wait to leave I tell ya. That kick in the pants from MDC made me want to change all of this thats for sure!
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I'm sorry, nym. What a crappy thing to wake up to. Just keep telling yourself it's not for much longer. Sorry that Kai had to go through that, but I'm relieved that you got some much needed sleep.



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That sucks..

my ex-dh used to do that crap all the time...

some men are such dumb***es


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I know. What a way to treat your child huh. I keep telling myself..two weeks left!
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Nym -- would u move onto to validating me so i can read ur blog.. sheesh.. :LOL

Let the countdown begin...

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lol... jeez

OKay yer in
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Yes I must hassle you. It is my job.

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That's a bunch of crap! I'm so glad you are getting out of there...you deserve much better...
Ask him how he would like to sit in a soaking wet diaper? ick.
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I know, my poor boo! At least he didn't get a rash from it
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Poor lil fella ....
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My dh has done the same thing!!!I'll wake up to ds and dd crying on my bed,asking for breakfast!Ds will still be in his nightime diaper,sometimes even leaking!Where is dh,well,on the couch,playing Tony Hawk Underground on Xbox!!! Then I have to hear that he let me sleep.Had I known he was going to ignore the kids,I would have got up and took care of them myself.Our stress level ends up high for the whole day,when it could have just been prevented by some cereal,juice and a diaper change.

For you and little dude.

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