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This is a spin off of the thread about which forums cause you anxiety.
Why do we do this to each other, cause anxiety in each other? Is this part of the mommy wars? Are we so unsure of our own practices that we put down others? Or, are we unsure of our parenting and do not defend it? (these are just guesses, by the way)
Why let forums here get you down to the point that you avoid them? What can be done to change things? Maybe we need forum buddies? If someone feels anxious about a certain forum, they need a buddy to help them wade through the BS until they feel comfortable.
I know that I felt uncomfortable in vax for a long time and I still do not enjoy that forum but I at least am not afraid of it anymore. And, sahming was too negative for me for a long time so I finally posted about that. For now it is better. I am not perfect and it took me a long time to spread my wings here, so to speak. What can we do to help others feel less anxious?