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#1 of 16 Old 12-13-2010, 10:34 AM - Thread Starter
 
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Well, my u/s did not go well this morning.  They did a tras vag u/s and I have an ectopic.  They gave me a shot of methotrexate to stop the growth of the cells and took blood.  She gave me a list of things to look for in case of rupture and told me to come back on Thurs for more labs and then on Friday for another exam.  This may result in emergency surgery.  Great.  This was not even on my radar.

I wish all of you ladies well.  I am not sure if I will be back.  After 2 losses, I don't thing this road was meant for me.  Best of luck to you all.

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I'm so, so sorry.  (((Hugs)))


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Oh my goodness I am so very very sorry to hear your news.  So heartbreaking.  Life can be so cruel. Wishing you strength and courage for your healing journey.hug2.gif


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Oh no.  hug2.gif  You are in my thoughts.  I'm so, so sorry. 


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I'm so so so so sorry to hear this news....my thoughts and prayers we with you.

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Oh, I'm so sorry!  Please take care of yourself, and try to heal. 


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I am so so so sorry. I wish there was something I could say or do to help but I know there isn't. hug.gif


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I'm so sorry. hug2.gif


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Oh my goodness Oaktreemom, I am so very very sorry! That is incredibly tough. Take care of yourself. I hope you find some peace with this eventually. Love and light to you.


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I'm soooo sorry.  I hope you don't have to have surgery and you heal well (emotionally and physically). 

 

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I am so sorry. Sending you (((hugs))) and lots of healing vibes. You will be in my thoughts.


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greensad.gif hug2.gifHow terrible.  I'm so sorry.  My thoughts are with you getting through this rough time without any complications.


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Oh, I am so sorry!  hug.gif  I know you were worried about things.  I hope you heal (and don't need the surgery).  And I hope you either find the peace to go on another path, or to continue trying.  Either way, it's a very tough choice.


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I am so sorry! (((hug)))


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I am so sorry to hear about your loss. candle.gif


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