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#1 of 128 Old 09-02-2011, 11:35 PM - Thread Starter
 
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Just wanted to let you all know that Friday DH and I received the news that our baby had passed. I woke up Friday morning at around 4am with a sudden realization that I had not felt the baby move the previous day. I was so busy all day on Thursday taking care of my DS who is very ill at the moment. We tried all the tricks to get the baby to move but nothing. My OB came to the house at 9am and we could not find a heartbeat. An u/s at the hospital confirmed our worst nightmare. It has been wonderful sharing this pregnancy with you ladies. Thank you for all your support and friendship over the past 9 months. I wish everyone a beautiful birth and babymoon.

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I am so, so sorry. greensad.gif {{ hugs }}
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Oh my goodness. There are no words to describe how sorry I am. I am praying hard for healing in your heart, body and mind.

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Oh no, I am so very sorry for your loss. Lots of love & hugs to you.

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Oh no! I am so very, very sorry... words cannot express. Love and light to you and your family.

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I'm so sorry for your loss.

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I cannot express how sorry I am. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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No, no, no...I am so terribly sorry to read this.   My thoughts and wishes for peace will be with you.

 

Please let us know how you are doing.  And know that we will be thinking of you


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All my sympathy, for you and your family.

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I am so so so sorry to hear this. My heart is breaking for you. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.


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Absolutely heartbreaking news.  Holding you and your family in the light.


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tutu, I am so sorry, words cannot express the shock and sadness. Prayers with you.


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I am so sorry! greensad.gif

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I am so sorry.

Steph, DH Jason (1-1-11), DS Owen (10-3-03) and DS Kai (10-13-11)

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guilty.gif  Tutu, I am so very sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. grouphug.gif


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Oh, tutu... how incredibly heartbreaking.  I wish your family all the love and peace you can possibly be given, and strength for you to get through the coming weeks and months.  You're in my prayers, mama.  candle.gif


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I feel absolutely devastated about this.  I am so sorry.  

 

You have been a gorgeous pregnancy role model for me as a first time mom.  I've read all your posts in this forum and have been incredibly impressed by your courage and your energy and your honesty.  I wanted the best for you and your husband and your son and your babe, and I feel like our DDC will be a little darker without your sweet baby here to share with us in a few weeks.

 

Thanks for being a part of our group.  I will remember your baby for a very long time.  


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Oh, tutu ... what devastating news for you and your family.  I am so, so, so sorry for your tragic loss. 

My thoughts and prayers are with you, your son, your husband and your baby.  I cannot imagine how difficult this is for you.

Do let us know what you name your little one, and if the baby is a boy or a girl, so that we can honour him or her and send more thoughts and prayers. 

I'm sure you're aware, but just in case you're not, there is a very supportive Pregnancy and Birth Loss forum on MDC where you can talk to mamas who've had a similar journey. 

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I am so sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.


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I am so sorry. There are no words. I wish you peace.

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Oh, no. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. How devastating and unfair. You and your family are very much in my thoughts. I wish you as much comfort and help as you can possibly get right now. Please take care of yourself. candle.gif


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I am terribly sorry.  I know there is nothing that will make you feel better right now, but I hope that you begin healing soon.  I hope you can get support in real life, by going home if you have to.  I'm sorry for your loss.


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I am so sorry for your loss.


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I am so so sorry for your loss.


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Oh mama, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Please, please be gentle with yourself in the coming days, weeks and months. You are going to be feeling and thinking a lot of things that will be troublesome, but you have to let yourself grieve in whatever way makes sense to you. Allow yourself - there is no greater loss than the loss of a child.

Please join us in the Pregnancy and Birth Loss section here on MDC - it is very supportive. There are a lot of us here who have lost babies.

My heart is with you and I am sending lots of love to you and your family.

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My thoughts are with you and your family....


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What a tragedy.  I am so, so sorry.  Wishing you and your family peace.  candle.gif


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I am so, so sorry.


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I am so sorry for your loss


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Oh Mama, I am so so sorry for your loss. I will be praying for your family.


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