When it comes to private domestic infant adoption, are emoms going to want to place with a family who already have three bio children? I have made several adoption inquiries, and some agencies have told me upfront that they don't see emoms placing with larger (more than one or two children already in the home) families at all. Other people I've talked to say that there is a family that is right for every baby, and some emoms will like to see instant playmates and reassurance that you know what you're doing as a parent.
So is the truth somewhere in between?
Mama to Peanut (06/03), Pixie (05/05), Beast (09/07), and Baby Girl (11/09)