Does anyone have any insights into "ideal" age gaps between adopted children? Of course I know there is no true ideal age gap. I have read some articles about issues that come up with adopting kids older than your children. I am mainly concerned with attachment issues for children adopted too close together. Any research? personal stories?
I am trying to plan ahead. My current FS is 6 months with adoption likely by 18-20 mo. I am already tired of the revolving door of social workers, etc. I feel like I want to push for a second placement but not to the detriment of my current FS.
Trying to adopt from foster care in Los Angeles.