My best friend bought my daughter a big teddy bear with a onesie on it that read "A forver famiily" She sleeps with it everynight. Dd also received a book called I am a promise, I am a possibility. She received lots of savings bonds, a picture frame that said "family" with a gift certificate to have a family portrait made. My sister gave us a book about the blessings of adoption and a CD by the Issac Family with a song on it titled, "Hero's". She played the song at the adoption party and there was not a dry eye in the house. The second verse was what got us:
"They tried for many years to have a baby of their own, but God knew a little girl who didn't have a home. Someone else's burden was their blessing in disguise and now she's got a mom and daddy there to hold her when she cries. And he's a hero and she's a hero. It doesn't matter that nobody knows their name. They keep on giving to make life worth living. They might go unnoticed, but their hero's just the same.
We also received a sterling silver dove Christmas Tree Ornament with a ribbon in his mouth reading "grace". That is the middle name we gave our daughter. (not sure where they got a Christmas ornament in the middle of july). She received jewelry, scrapbooking stuff, and a few toys.
Hope this helps.