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Old 12-30-2009, 10:54 PM - Thread Starter
 
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born dec 19th 2009
birth story with pictures

http://ecmama.blogspot.com/2009/12/a...rth-story.html

and here is the more detailed one

http://ecmama.blogspot.com/2010/06/w...aquila_21.html

mdcblog5.gif   Liz mama to DS 10, DSS 9, DD 6, DS 3, DD 2 , Aquila- dec 19th 2009 died at my homebirth, and....welcome Willow born 9-16-10 (9 weeks early)  nut.gif
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Old 12-30-2009, 10:59 PM
 
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Oh mama.

I'm so sorry.
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I am so very sorry, mama. Your daughter is beautiful.
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So, so sorry, Mama! Gentle hugs to you and a candle for sweet Aquila. My 16yo niece's name is Aquilla, she is my hero. Your Aquila is so beautiful!

Kali (pka Michelle) ~ crunchy wife to Cory (09/06) ~ Mama to H (03/90) & I (06/92)--bothnocirc.gifbf.jpg BF for 35 consecutive months ~ angel1.gif x 4

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So sorry for your pain and loss....praying strength and healing for you and your family.

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so sorry for your family's loss. i send you all some peace.

Jese Mom to Elaina (April 2007) & Macy (June 2010). #3 m/c at 10 weeks (July 2013), #4 m/c at 9 weeks (october 2013). Announcing baby Kayla, born October 21 2014.
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words are totally inadequate... I'm sorry for your deep loss.
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i, too, am very sorry for your loss.
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Couldn't read and not post...sending prayers and good thoughts your way. Another angel has been born into the Lord's arms.

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I just wanted to tell you how sorry I am for your loss. I am praying for you.

belly.gifLesli: Wife to Jon, Mommy to my treasures, Kyla(Feb 06), Erin (Nov 08), and "Beanie" due 01/12! We're a home centered family! Homebirth, homecooking, homemade homegrown, and homeschooling!!

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How terrible, I'm so sorry for your loss

Katherine, SAHM to 2 little princes
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I will remember your Aquila forever, and pray that God heals you and your family's heart.
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I am so deeply sorry for your loss.

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I am so incredibly sorry... there are no words...

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So sorry mama. You have a beautiful family.

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So, so sorry for your loss mama.

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My heart breaks for you and your family. I'm so sorry.

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I am so sorry for your loss Mama!
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I am so sorry for your loss. My heart aches for you and your family. Your Aquila is beautiful. You are in my prayers.

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We are so sorry for your lost baby. Your pictures are so moving. I hope you find peace and healing.

Placenta eating EC mom to my sweet DS Skyy 08/24/08 and Lotus Birth HBAC DD Aspen 01/13/2010 Healed by her birth
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I am so, so, so sorry, mama.

baby Aquila

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I'm sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family from here.
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Saw this in new posts. I'm truly sorry for your loss.
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Keeping you and baby Aquila and all of your family in my thoughts.
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My heart is aching for you Mama -- so so sorry.

Spiralshell -- Mama to David Nathaniel, born October 2009. And so you see I have come to doubt all that I once held as true. I stand alone without belief, the only truth I know is you.
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I am so sorry you lost your little girl. She was so beautiful.

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ribboncesarean.gif vbac.gifhomebirth.jpg I have given birth a variety of ways and I am thankful for what each one has taught me.

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I'm so sorry for your loss.

thank you for sharing your story with us, it's beautifully written.

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I am sorry for your loss! Sending peace and light to you and your family!

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