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#61 of 98 Old 08-27-2010, 02:27 AM
 
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Oh, mama! I am so sorry for your loss.


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I am so sorry for your loss.
May you and your family find peace and healing.
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I wish you and your family peace and healing.
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I am so sorry.

It's not that the stay-at-home-parent gets to stay home with the kids. The kids get to stay home with a parent. Lucky Mom to DD1 (4 y) and DD2 (18 mo), Wife to Mercenary Dad
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oh my. I am so sorry for your loss, mama.

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I'm so sorry for you loss. But I'm also glad that you had those minutes with Jack before the chaos of the hospital. I wish you peace and healing, Mama.
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I cried and cried reading your story. The pain in your words is so real and I can't being to imagine how you must be feeling. In some small way, I feel like he gave you a last gift by being born in the car so that you could have him in your arms for just that small amount of time, rather than being wisked away immediately in the hospital.

Please know you are deeply in my thoughts as is your family and your sweet angel son.
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I am sorry for your loss Laura. I wish healing to you and your family.

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Laura, I am so, so sorry to hear this!!!

Many hugs & prayers for you sweetie!

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I'm so sorry for your loss.

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I am so sorry.

I work with a local prenatal/infant loss group. (All the mamas volunteer) I would suggest you have them take the photos, and whatever other remembrances they do. And ask that they seal them in an envelope. Take it home, put it away where you know where it is, but wont run into it everyday. You may or may not want it in the future. Or you son may want remembrances of his brother when he is older. Or your other children yet to be may want to see a picture of him. If it is not for you, you can just not open it, or give it to your son when he is grown. But you can never go back and get those photos re-taken if you don't get them. I know MANY women who didn't want them at the time, who treasure those photos now. I'm not saying that will be you, but it might?

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I am so sorry mama. My thoughts are with you and your family.

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words can't tell you how much my heart goes out to you.
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I'm so sorry that your loss was made more difficult by a unsupportive and distressing hospital stay. I hope time brings you peace and healing.

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I am so sorry for your loss.

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I am so sorry for your loss.
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I'm so sorry.

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I'm very sorry.

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Oh Laura, my heart goes out to you. You probably don't remember me but I have had so much admiration for you, for years. I'm so sorry for your loss and for the way that you were treated at the hospital. My thoughts are with you.
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heartbreaking

Im so sorry for your loss. Healing and loving vibes to you and your family.

If the people let government decide what foods they eat and what medicines they take, their bodies will soon be in as sorry a state as are the souls of those who live under tyranny." Thomas Jefferson.

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That's so sad : (

take care, mama

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I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss, mama.

My baby is 2 years old! How did that happen?!
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I am so very sorry for your loss. And I am also sorry about the way you were treated. You are a beautiful and strong woman. I wish you peace. hugs
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I am so sorry for your loss.

Christi -- Wife to Joe 4/5/08. Mommy to DD#1 born 9/23/08 and DD#2 born 1/21/10 AND
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IM so very sorry for your loss....so sad

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I'm so very sorry for your loss.

Busy, hectic, HAPPY single mom to 3 awesome kiddos jumpers.gif DD1 (10) DS (8) DD2 (6)

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I am so sorry Laura. I know that in no way cuts it, but I wanted to tell you that anyways... and share this... it is a slideshow created by my friend, showing the birth of her daughter, Abby.

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I am so sorry for your loss. I'm praying for your family and for healing. May you find peace.

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I'm so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers. <3 <3 <3

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