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#1 of 19 Old 08-22-2011, 06:54 AM - Thread Starter
 
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Our daughter Anna was born still yesterday, August 21st, at 12:30 in the morning.  Could someone please take me off of the due date list for December?  I've just been lurking here but it is making me feel a little better to finish some of the things I had started in preparation for her birth.  I hope to come back to mothering some day for her brother or sister but that won't be for a long time I think.  I wish everyone here the best - even in our situation, I found birth to be awe-inspiring and becoming a mother has changed me forever.  Those of you who are first-timers (like I was) are in for such a wonderful amazing gift...love to you all.  --Whit

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#2 of 19 Old 08-22-2011, 08:22 AM
 
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So sorry for your loss, mama. You are in our thoughts.


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Oh mama, I am so sorry for your loss of Anna.  I lost a baby boy, Andrew, at 20 weeks many years ago - the grief can be overwhelming, but it does lessen over time.   You will be in my thoughts.  ((((big hugs))))

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I am so so sorry, Mama :(.  Wishing you peace and healing. 

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((((hugs)))) I'm so sorry!!


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wow, so sorry for your loss (hugs)

I had no idea you could lose a baby that far along.

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So sorry to hear about your loss Mama!!

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Thinking about you and Anna now.

Hugs, mama! 

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Hugs to you.....sorry for your loss.


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I'm so sorry for your loss. ):


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I'm sorry :-(

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I'm so sorry.

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Thank you to all of you.  It's always nice to know that people are thinking of us, as we are having a hard time navigating these shoals.  

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I am so sorry for your loss! :***(

 


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Thank you for sharing. Thinking of you...

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i am so sorry for your loss.  please be gentle with yourself and allow plenty of time for healing.

 

5 years ago, i lost a daughter who was born prematurely at 26 weeks.  though i was very reluctant, i attended weekly grief counseling sessions with my husband.  still, to this day, I don’t think I could have gotten through that time without the support and care of our counselor.  just something to consider.

 

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I'm so sorry to hear that. :'( 4 years ago I had to make a very similar post. Hugs to you and your family.
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I haven't been on in a while and noticed this today. I just wanted to say that I am so sorry for your loss. We lost our baby girl at 23 weeks on November 2, 2010. Her name was Ana. I know you are going through a really hard time and I just want to tell you that I understand what you are going through and I hope each day gets a little easier. **HUGS**

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