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Old 06-26-2011, 02:59 PM
 
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May you and your family find peace and healing. . .so sorry for what you are going through.


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Old 06-26-2011, 07:04 PM
 
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I am so, so sorry that you've had such horrible news.  I wish you peace while you try to make the right decision for you and for your sweet baby. I'm so sorry.

 

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I am so sorry mama, for your terrible situation and your awful dilemma. I know I would struggle with this as well, and I wish you peace and healing, whatever you decide.

Much love to you and family.
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Old 06-26-2011, 10:27 PM
 
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I cant help you make the right desicion, but I do want to let you know that I've had a D&C and you can pm me with any questions you may have. hug.gif

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Old 06-27-2011, 05:27 AM
 
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Love and light to you.  I wish you peace as you work through this difficult time.  


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Old 06-27-2011, 06:21 AM
 
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I am so sorry to hear your news.  :(  Only you can make the appropriate decision about what to do, and hopefully you have people around you to support you in any decision you make.  Sending good thoughts your way.


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Old 06-27-2011, 03:28 PM
 
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I am so so sorry.  What a horrible decision to have to make.  My first child was diagnosed with a heart defect at my 18 week ultrasound, and a week or so later developed fetal hyprops, incompatible with life.  I faced a similar decision.  She passed away at 22 weeks, I was induced a day later and delivered her stillborn shortly after.  Losing a child no matter the age is the absolute worst thing any mother could go through, and no mother should ever have to.  I am crying for you.  I am so sorry.  I feel oddly fortunate that I didn't have to make the decision, it was made for me, although I feel weird saying that.  I would like to share with you a community called the MISS Foundation.  www.missfoundation.org.  I found a support group in my area, and was involved in the online community as well.  I was very involved for a long time, and found it extremely helpful to talk to other women and men who had walked a similar path and survived.  Again, I am so so sorry brokenheart.gif.


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Old 06-27-2011, 03:35 PM
 
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Dang I was hoping they were wrong. I am so sorry hun. There is no real "right" choice just what is best for you and your family. None of the choices in front of you are easy nor any ones business what you decide to do. I wish I could just hug you. I hope you have many people around you full of strength and understanding that you need right now.


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Old 06-27-2011, 07:51 PM
 
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Ohhh, I'm so so sorry that you are faced with this experience...how painful and heartbreaking. May you find peace and comfort as you grieve the loss of your sweet baby, whatever your decision. I don't think there is a right or wrong decision. It's what feels most comfortable for you and your partner. You'll be in my thoughts. Holding you up in warm light and love candle.gif


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Old 06-27-2011, 08:34 PM - Thread Starter
 
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Thanks everyone!  It's incredibly helpful to read these supportive notes.  I want to return the grace and love, and wish you healthy pregnacies and healthy babies.  Thank you.


Humbly parenting Abraham (1/08), learning to be gentle and creative.  At least I got a good man to hold my hand.  Married to Ben (8/06). 

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Old 06-29-2011, 08:17 PM
 
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Just read this today. Your family is in my prayers. I can't imagine the pain you're going through with this news and weight of your decision. Allow others to help you and don't be afraid to tell people that you need dinners or childcare or cleaning or whatever.


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Old 06-30-2011, 08:59 AM
 
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hug2.gif  I'm so sorry, Mama.  I hope you can find peace for yourself and with your decision.  There is no "wrong" choice, and I hope nobody judges you for this impossible situation.


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Old 06-30-2011, 06:44 PM
 
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Thought of you today and feeling for you in my heart. I agree with Milly...ask for help so you can have quiet moments to grieve.  


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I am sorry to hear this, I cannot imagine having to make this decision right now. You are in my thoughts, reaching out across the miles.


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DDCC- i am so sorry you're going through this.  i hope you recover quickly, and that you can find peace.  you're in my thoughts.  sending you love & light.


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