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#1 of 16 Old 06-30-2011, 11:41 AM - Thread Starter
 
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I just wanted to say bye to all of you on this wonderful board...

After some spotting/bleeding at the beginning of this week, my doctor did an U/S and found that my little baby's heart had stopped beating probably just a few days before. I had a D/C at the hospital and I am back home now. It is very difficult to find peace, especially after a super-smooth first pregnancy and birth and no history of miscarriages in my own or in my family's history.

 

I think if this little one came to teach me something, it was certainly a feeling of even greater wonder, love and appreciation towards my 2-yr-old daughter. Apart from my DH, she is my greatest comfort in these trying times.

 

Again, thank you for sharing the past few months with me. I wish you all the best.

Love,

Orshi

 

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grouphug.gif  So sorry to hear.  :(  You will be missed.  Take care of yourself.


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I'm saddened to hear this. Much love to you.

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Chatty Girl - 3/2006, Lovey Boy - 1/2010, Delicious Baby Girl - 1/2012
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You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you find healing and peace soon.


aj- married to JA and mami to Bug (11/09) and Critter (1/12)!

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Oh I'm so sorry! ): You're in my thoughts!


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So sorry to hear this.

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I'm so sorry this has happened. Be gentle with yourself. You're in my thoughts.

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so sorry mama!  keeping you in my thoughts.

 

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I'm so sorry. hug2.gif After having my first miscarriage earlier this year, I definitely experienced what you described. It really wakes you to the core. After weeks passed, I began to understand why our little baby stayed but a short while at the time. Wishing you peace and comfort at this time. candle.gif


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i am so very, very sorry.


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Oh mama, I am so sorry for your loss. Loving and healing thoughts to you and family.
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I'm so sorry for your loss.  hug.gif


mom to all boys B: 08/01ribboncesarean.gif,  C: 07/05 uc.jpg, N: 03/09 uc.jpg, M: 01/12 uc.jpg and far too many lost onesintactlact.gifsaynovax.gif

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I'm so, so sorry. ((Hugs))   I also had a miscarriage out of the blue earlier this year.  It was a difficult time.  Take good care of yourself, mama.

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I am so sorry ((((hugs))))

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I'm so sorry, mama.  Take care of yourself...  hug2.gif


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I'm sorry. :(


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