First-time momma-to-be with my amazing man. Planning a homebirth and expecting a baby girl mid-January 2012.
It is normal for babies to get increasingly fussy, usually peaking by 6 weeks. Have you heard of The Period if Purple Crying? You can check your diet for fussiness triggers that could be coming through your milk, but know that increassed fussiness is totally and utterly normal at this age. And it does get better. The worst offenders include caffeine, chocolate, and tomatoes. There are more, but those seem to be the mightiest.
My mother told me (multiple times, lol) that I had severe "colic" as a baby, along with bad eczema. She had no idea what to do with me because I never stopped screaming. It was not general fussiness; it was screaming from pain, and I was strictly breastfed...
When my little one was about 3 weeks old, she started crying at night (whereas previously, she was really chill at night)...nothing would soothe her, not nursing, not clean diapers, not walking and singing to her...nothing. My husband and I were starting to lose it because we couldn't stand to see her in pain...I'm pretty sure it was severe gas because after farting a few times and pooping, she'd finally fall asleep. I knew there was no way I was going to let her get the way I was when I was a baby, so I cold-turkey cut wheat, soy, corn, peanuts, beans, cruciferous veggies (broccoli, kale, cabbage, etc.), and alliums (onions, garlic, etc.). I was already vegan, so I did not consume eggs or dairy. The VERY NEXT NIGHT, she was 75% better, and after that, we had no more issues whatsoever.
Now, my diet is very limited. I live off of an abundance of fresh fruit (especially high calorie fruits like bananas) and very large salads. I get my fats and proteins from almonds, walnuts, and avocados. It sounds extreme, but it's worth it so my baby doesn't have to be in pain (and so that we get a little bit of sleep at night, lol).
Good luck! I hope your baby feels better soon!
Sprat , Certified Professional Midwife, loved very much by Sprig , the most open-minded, loving, gentle man in the world, little Sprout and now someone new! on begins with .
I gave up dairy and eggs, and Z's reflux went away (especially at night, when it was the worst and would make him wake up screaming). I hope things are getting better for you, demoonunit, and that you find the source of your baby's discomfort. It can be quite overwhelming!!!