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Old 04-12-2012, 01:44 PM
 
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Lighting a candle for you in our home. No mother should have to suffer this - I am so sorry for your pain.


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Old 04-12-2012, 03:13 PM
 
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Oh Adaline's Mama, I am so very sorry!  I cannot begin to imagine what you and your family are going through right now.  Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.  I'm so sorry...


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I am so sorry, Adaline'sMama, I am so sorry. All loving thoughts your way. 


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I haven't posted here much in recent months, but I'm so sorry to hear this. I wish I could think of something to do or say that would make it all better for you. I'm so sorry.candle.gif
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adaline'smama- this is the worst.  i am so sorry, precious mama.  you did NOTHING to deserve this.  my heart is so sad with yours in losing your precious one.  like others have said, please be very gentle with yourself.  i hope that you have a lot of support right now. much love to you.


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I am so very sorry.  I can't imagine your grief.  So, so, much peace to you and your family right now.


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You are not being punished for anything.  We pass in and out of life for mysterious reasons.  I hope you find an explanation that brings you some small measure of peace.  I am so, so very sorry.


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I'm so very sorry. Thinking of you and your family.

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I'm very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts.


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I am so so sorry. My heart goes out to you and your family.


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I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my dd at 20 months if age. The pain is indescribable.
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Thank you all so much for your kind words. This is the hardest thing Ive ever had to do.

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Adaline love.gif (3/20/10), and Charlie brokenheart.gif (1/26/12- 4/10/12) and our identical  rainbow1284.gif  twins Callie and Wendy (01/04/13)

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Adaline'sMama, I'm so sorry for the loss of your sweet baby.

I hope you are getting the support you need from your family and community. I also recommend resources like Share http://www.nationalshare.org/Groups.html, or whatever other local support you can get. Participating in a loss support group was helpful for me & my husband, and for all other parents we met there. My thoughts are with you.


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I am so sorry that you are going through this. I honestly can not imagine anything worse than losing a child. I hope you have a good support around you. Hugs to your entire family. 

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I'm so very sorry! Sending peace.


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I'm so sorry for your loss.


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Dear mama,

 

I'm so sorry for your loss.  Please know that you are not alone. 

 

You are loved, you are supported, and your love for your little one will always be in your heart.

 

hug.gifFeel free to ping me if you need to talk to someone who has had a similar experience.


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Oh sweet mama, my heart is broken for you.  I have no words.  Thoughts and prayers for peace and some comfort to you.  


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Crashing...

 

I'm so, so sorry to hear this.  Nobody deserves to go through such a terrible loss.  I can't even imagine how much pain you and your family must be in.  I hope you are able to get the support you need to walk this difficult path.


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I'm so sorry to hear this, mama.  Lots of love to you and your family.  candle.gif stillheart.gif


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I am so very sorry. The pain must be tremendous. Much love and many prayers for you and your family.


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This is just awful...  I am so sorry.  I hope you and your family find the peace and healing you need. 

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I am so so sorry you are dealing with something so terrible. Prayers for you and your angel. hug2.gif

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I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you and your family. Xx


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I am so so so sorry mama... I don't know what to say :(
 

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Thinking of you and praying for you.

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I'm so very sorry for your loss. hug2.gif


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Oh, no. greensad.gif. I'm so sad for you and your family. I can only imagine the pain you are suffering. I hope you are surrounded by love and support.

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I have read this post over and over. I come back nearly everyday and the words escape me and my heart is just breaking for you. :( I know the words I'm sorry do nothing to ease your pain.  I pray and hope and beg that whoever or whatever you believe in is sending you strength and courage and very quick healing. I wish I were closer to you and I would just take you in my arms and pray it could take this pain away. 

Stay strong Mama, If you need anything, a virtual shoulder to cry on or anything please just ask!

 

ETA: From experience I can assure you there is a rainbow after every storm so keep your head up. 


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