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Adaline'sMama 04-11-2012 09:40 AM

I lost my sweet baby boy yesterday morning. He wasnt breathing when we woke up in the morning. Autopsy has been completed (not my choice, they do it on all infants), and we have no answers as to why this has happened to us. I never quite knew what pain was until now. It feels like my insides are being ripped open every moment. The images wont leave my head. I feel like Ive been punished for something, but Im not sure what it could be. This is so unfair.

abiyhayil 04-11-2012 10:09 AM

candle.gif sweet baby Charles you are loved beyond measure. I am so sorry for your loss, I can only imagine how deep your heartache is

3xMama 04-11-2012 10:16 AM

I just saw this pop up in the Recent Discussions and I wanted to take a moment to say I'm so so sorry. I will be praying for you and yours. candle.gif

mtn.mama 04-11-2012 10:25 AM

oh mama... my heart is breaking for you.  your sweet babe had a special mission on this earth- to fill your body with life, and to fill your heart with love.  i'm sorry for the emptiness that can only come after such fullness. all my love, mama...


*bejeweled* 04-11-2012 10:45 AM

I am so very sorry. hug.gif

hildare 04-11-2012 10:56 AM

 i'm here if it helps to talk about it.

i cannot tell you how sorry i am.  no words.  your sweet strong dh & little A will help you get through this.


Tropicalfever 04-11-2012 10:58 AM

Take heart I am so very sorry for your little angel.gif May the yopu find the comfort and peace you need . Big hugs candle.gif

Ramzubo 04-11-2012 10:58 AM

I am so very sorry. I will be keeping your family in my thoughts.

Storm Bride 04-11-2012 11:25 AM

I'm so, so sorry .There are no words. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts. hug2.gif

Mama Soltera 04-11-2012 11:38 AM

I'm so sorry for your loss. Do everything you can to be kind and gentle to yourself right now. Accept as much support as you can. You are not being punished for anything. You did nothing wrong. Take it one day at a time. You are in my thoughts. I wish you peace and strength during this unimaginably painful time in your life.

McGucks 04-11-2012 11:57 AM

I am so, so terribly sorry for your loss and your family's loss.  There is no greater pain.


So much love to you.  candle.gif

buterflymomma 04-11-2012 12:24 PM

There are no words. I am so very sorry for your loss.

Buzzer Beater 04-11-2012 12:30 PM

Adaline'sMama I'm so very sorry.

Marnica 04-11-2012 12:35 PM

Oh My.....I am so very sorry. here are no words and I can't imagine the depth of pain you must feel. My heart goes out to you and your family and I'm praying for all of you candle.gif

MrsGregory 04-11-2012 12:39 PM

I'm so sorry. 

Tara2 04-11-2012 12:41 PM

Oh my dear. That's the most awful thing I have heard in a long time. I can't imagine much more horror as a mother. Saying I'm so sorry won't even cut it. Will keep you and your family in my prayers for strength and healing.. that you will find what you need to get through this. 

farmerjess 04-11-2012 02:49 PM


Baby_Cakes 04-11-2012 02:58 PM

candle.gif  thinking of you.  i'm so sorry for your loss.  

atomicrocket 04-11-2012 03:27 PM

I am so, so very sorry for your loss, Adelinesmama.

nelson 04-11-2012 03:31 PM

I am so sorry for your loss. candle.gif

Mayfly 04-11-2012 03:37 PM

I am so, so sorry. Sending you love and peace.

Milk8shake 04-11-2012 03:45 PM

I'm so very sorry for the loss of your little boy.  You and your family will be in my thoughts.  

Belia 04-11-2012 04:05 PM

There are no words, mama.  I am so very, very sorry for your loss.


I wish you much peace.


candle.gif  Sweet, sweet baby boy.

faithsstuff 04-11-2012 04:07 PM

Mama, hugs to you I am so very very sorry.

Bokonon 04-11-2012 04:08 PM

I am so, so sorry for your loss.  I can't even imagine the pain you must be going through.  Sending you peace and strength.

Harmony96 04-11-2012 04:28 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss. hug.gif: It's a rough initiation into a club nobody wants to join, but you're not alone. Nobody will share the exact thoughts and feelings that you do, but others (myself included) have walked this path, too, and are willing to lend an ear when/if you are ready at some point to talk.

Grief is messy. The five or six or however many stages make a nice sitcom plot to have a character go through them linearly, but it's not like that in real life. Phases can be skipped, visited out of order, visited more than once, visited months later out of the blue.

I pray for peace for you and your DH and your DD during this time. hug.gif: candle.gif:

liliaceae 04-11-2012 04:37 PM

I am so sorry. greensad.gif

tropicana 04-11-2012 05:09 PM

i am so sorry to read this. holding you in my heart right now!

stegenrae 04-11-2012 05:09 PM

Oh, Adalinesmama, my heart breaks for you. I hope you recognize you're not being punished; you are a fantastic mom. I'm so sorry you and your family are hurting so deeply. I'm keeping you in my thoughts and holding you in the light. 




Ruthiegirl 04-11-2012 05:19 PM

Oh mama, I am so very sorry.  Keeping you and yours in my thoughts.  

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