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#1 of 15 Old 07-13-2011, 07:13 AM - Thread Starter
 
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My stay here was short. I went on vacation last week and started bleeding the night before my plane left. I spent my vacation losing my baby. I"m not sure I've processed it emotionally yet.

I wish I knew what was going on with me. I lost twins my last pregnancy. One at about 7ish weeks and the other I delivered at 19 weeks but he was only about 15 1/2 weeks gestation. Then this. I'm not sure what this means for me. It's just frustrating.

 

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Hugs and healing thoughts being sent to you Mama.


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I am so sorry for your loss! The pregnancy and birth loss forum here helped me so much when I had my losses, you might want to check in over there.


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Hugs, mama.  I'm so sorry.  I had a similar situation with an unconfirmed miscarriage (couldn't confirm that I was pregnant yet, but I was pretty sure) last December.  It began on Christmas Day, and then we left on a trip the next day.  That had to be one of the most difficult experiences I have ever had.  Peace to you as you mourn.

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oh, I am so sorry, many many hugs being sent your way. grouphug.gif


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Ahh, so terribly sorry!  You've had it rough.  Wish you the best moving forward.

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I'm sorry for your loss. 

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Sorry AmBam.  You have had a rough trot. 

 

Are you planning on seeing a doc to get checked out in terms of multiple losses?


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I'm so sorry. What a horrible way to spend a vacation.


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I am so sorry!

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I'm so sorry for your loss. Big hugs. hug2.gif


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I am so sorry to hear this. :( Definitely see a doctor to see if they can figure this out, though the very different gestational times seems a bit odd and not like most miscarriages. I really hope you can figure out what is going on. hugs.

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Hugs and peace to you.  Rescue Remedy helped me with each of my 3 m/cs.  Take it easy!


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