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#1 of 20 Old 07-19-2011, 05:46 AM - Thread Starter
 
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Looks like I'll be out of this forum in a few days. :( I've had cramps for three days and yesterday started to bleed like it was my period. It stopped overnight, but I'm still having pains in my lower abdomen. 

We've decided we won't try again after this and will be taking permanent measures to prevent more kids, which breaks my heart, but I'm starting to think my sons were just a fluke. We thought we'd figured out what caused the first three losses before them, and the one right after was chalked up to my body not being ready after having two kids in a row. But this one . . . it's later than any of my others and obviously something else is going wrong, so I don't think I can try again, knowing that it's not likely to work. DH says we should just be happy with the two we've got. 

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So sorry, mama. grouphug.gif


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I'm so sorry.


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I am so sorry.

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I'm so sorry.


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Oh I am so sorry. greensad.gif Of course you are happy with who you already have earthside. I am sending peaceful wished for quick healing, and an easing of your sadness. Big hugs.

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I'm so sorry.  hug2.gif


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So sorry, Mama.

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Oh no, I am so sorry, mama. Sending healing vibes and hugs your way. hug2.gif


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So sorry to hear this hug2.gif


“He allowed himself to be swayed by his conviction that human beings are not born once and for all on the day their mothers give birth to them, but that life obliges them over and over again to give birth to themselves.” 

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I'm so sorry grouphug.gif


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Oh no. I'm so sorry you're going through this. hug2.gif


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I'm very sorry.

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Still uncertain . . . the bleeding stopped and I'm just spending my days in bed, working. Still sick as a dog and my breasts still hurt, so I guess hormone levels are still up. And now we wait! DH suggested we go to the doctor, we may go next week if we can, just to get a better idea of what is going on. I know I haven't miscarried yet, the clots were all too small, so we shall see. I'm not sure whether to feel hopeful or not!

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I'm so sorry mama. Thinking of you, waiting is the worst.

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Well, still hanging here. I haven't seen any more blood, the cramping is gone and I'm still sick as a dog and have horribly sore boobs, so I'm taking that as a good sign! I will probably try to see the doctor in the next couple of weeks to see what is happening (keep putting it off because of work and not wanting to do it all just to find out it's over), but I am feeling so horrid that I'm pretty sure there's still a baby in there!

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I am very hopeful for you, freelancemom.

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Yay for feeling crummy!  Thinking of you and sending sticky baby vibes your way!

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Wow, so happy to hear that!! Thinking about you and crossing fingers. Keep us posted!


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Sending sticky vibes and best wishes and hope you get the confirmation you need to move forward without doubt and fear.

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