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#1 of 20 Old 07-26-2011, 11:38 AM - Thread Starter
 
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Things are not promising and it's just painful to be here. I just got news on my bloodwork and my hcg levels are not doing well... very, very slight rise in 72 hours. With the slow heart beat and growth I know it's over. I should be 8/9 weeks pregnant. I am totally devastated. I don't know that I could go through this again.

 

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#2 of 20 Old 07-26-2011, 11:55 AM
 
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I'm so sorry for your loss.  


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I am so sorry, Mama.

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“He allowed himself to be swayed by his conviction that human beings are not born once and for all on the day their mothers give birth to them, but that life obliges them over and over again to give birth to themselves.” 

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From one aching heart to another, I am so sorry.  This bites.

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I'm so sorry hug2.gif


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I am so sorry.

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My thoughts are with you, hon.  I'm truly sorry to hear this. 


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So, so sorry...
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I am so, so sorry. 

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I am so so sorry.


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I'm so sorry. 

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After weeks away from this DDC, I just decided to check in to see how you ladies were doing.  I am so sorry to hear about your loss.  I found "EXACTLY what to expect with a m/c" in Pregnancy and birth loss forum EXTREMELY helpful.  I know we don't really know each other, but PM me if you need to talk to someone who understands.

 

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I'm so sorry you're going through this. Hugs


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Thanks, everyone. A final ultrasound this morning showed there was no longer any cardiac activity. No matter how much you prepare yourself it's utterly devastating.

 

Gah. No sign of miscarrying naturally at this point and I am so ready for this to be over.


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Hugs, hugs and more hugs! So sorry and time does heal. I went through 9 myself. I will keep positive thoughts your way!

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I have been thinking of you all day and got on to see if there were any updates.  How totally awful.  I was hoping so bad that things would turn out good.  Hugs and Healing sent your way hug2.gif

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