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#1 of 60 Old 07-26-2011, 05:29 PM - Thread Starter
 
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Baby #5, my lastborn having destroyed my stomach muscles makes for fun 'hiding' things. 8w and it's pretty bad. I don't have enough baggy summer work clothes! Oy vey. I can't believe how sticky-outy I am! Is it just me??

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Nope - me too. DD was 9.9lbs, and sat sideways. My skin is so stretched out and covered in huge stretch marks that I'd have to get it surgically removed if I wanted to get rid of it. I had to get my pants out of storage at 6 weeks, and now, regular pants don't fit at all. My yoga style pants are even a little snug. Surprisingly, the top of my stomach is sticking out now, too.

Most of the stores around here have gotten rid of their maternity section or have cut it down to 1-2 racks. I had to order shorts online, so I really hope they fit!

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It's definitely not just you. I kept waiting for my giant ovarian hyperstimulation abdomen to go down and...I guess it's not retained fluid anymore. Apparently, if you are really short in stature and have a short torso at the same time your uterus has nowhere to go but forward? I don't know. But I can definitely feel my uterus now, my abdomen is bizarrely solid almost all the way to my rib cage and I am HUGE for nine weeks. I am praying that my sundresses make it to the time when the weather changes because it will be a near thing.

 

On the creepy upside, I am still terrified that we are going to lose this baby so I am grateful to get the chance to experience the belly.


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I wore an old maternity skirt today and a regular shirt and had to suck in HARD all day to avoid being asked by my coworkers or patrons. I made a mental note not to wear this combo for my night shifts, when the bloating is even worse! At 6 weeks, I KNOW it's just fluid and air.


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I'm not sure I'm doing such a great job of hiding it.  I do have some baggy sundresses and tunic tees though so I am doing my best.  Oh, and thank heavens for my knit skirts with yoga waistbands.

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I am in the same boat - I will be 8 weeks on Thursday.  Although I am still able to wear my regular clothes, they certainly are not doing me any favors right now.  

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I'm only 5 weeks, and I definitely feel bigger around the middle.  I already had some leftover baby weight there, and the bloating and indigestion is making it worse.  I had a family wedding to attend this weekend, lots of family I rarely see were there; I spent a lot of time pulling my tummy in and trying to be aware of my posture.  My pants still fit, though, so it can't be too bad.


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9.5 wks now and I've been showing since 6 wks.  Now I'm starting to hear that it's "obvious".  I was going to keep it secret until 2nd trimester, but I don't see that working.  :)


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I went to a second hand store that carries kids and maternity clothes. The poor cashier felt so bad for asking, but she asked if I needed maternity clothes. I just laughed and told her it is fine - I'm in that awkward "is she, or isn't she" phase.

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Camera Girl, LOL, I think I have been in that awkward phase for years.  You'd think if you worked at a store and weren't sure whether a customer was expecting, a more appropriate response would be, "What can I help you find?".

 

It really hit home for me when my mom called my grandma to tell her the big news while I was there and she was on speaker phone with many family members gathered around, and my grandma said, " I thought she was pregnant" to which my mom responded "why would you think that?"  and she answered, "Because she has gained so much weight".

 

I was only six weeks at the time of the call and hadn't even seen my grandma since before conception.  Ugh.

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Aren't grandmas great? Mine was a nurse, and when she heard that I was pregnant after a miscarriage, the horror stories started coming out. She had to tell me ALL about how my aunt had a molar pregnancy and didn't find out until she was 12.5 weeks. Yeah, thanks Grandma. Personally, I'm growing a bloaty fart baby.

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 I had a family wedding to attend this weekend, lots of family I rarely see were there; I spent a lot of time pulling my tummy in and trying to be aware of my posture.  My pants still fit, though, so it can't be too bad.


I have now seen the pics from the wedding, and apparently, my sucking it in and good posture didn't help much.  redface.gif  


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I was in full maternity last time at 8 weeks (I'm now almost 6 weeks)...so we'll see this time w/ #3 :) I need to dig my maternity clothes out of storage soon!


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 Personally, I'm growing a bloaty fart baby.


I love this.


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I switched to maternity pants at 7 weeks last time...this time I barely got to 6 weeks. Considering that my gummy bear is already measuring 4 days big (I know when I ovulated) I'm guessing I'm going to have another large baby. I'm thinking I better save my money, because the only way to get rid of this stretched out skin is to cut it off. At least I got a great reward for losing my figure. smile.gif

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I already feel bloated and I am only 5 wks. I didn't lose all of my baby weight from my previous two babies and it is all around my middle. I am going to look so pregnant this time really early on.

 

 


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Personally, I'm growing a bloaty fart baby.


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If I haven't eaten, my stomach is almost totally flat, but when I'm full, my belly pooches out with the meal quite a lot.  This has always happened to me, it's not because I'm pregnant, but I'm a lot more aware of it now.  So if you don't count this after-dinner issue, I'm not showing at all, just maybe a tiny bit more bloated than usual.    8 wks.  


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I get to wear stretchy pants and a cute maternity top today! Yesterday I officially had 2 complete strangers congratulate me on our new addition.  Ugh.  I didn't start showing with my first until I was almost 20 wks. I didn't think it was 'that' obvious but I guess I was wrong.  I have this overhang I've never been able to get rid of after two kids but I could at least tuck it into some shorts and suck it in.  Now I can't do anything about it except wear bigger clothes.  Does this mean I get to go shopping??? bouncy.gif


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Do you ladies have a much bigger stomach by the end of the day? It is kind of ridiculous. In the morning, I just look chubby. By dinner time, I look like I'm 4 months pregnant. It was so bad last night that I couldn't eat dinner...and that made me want to cry because we went out for DD's birthday. I couldn't even look at the ice cream sundae the waiter brought her.

I finally found shorts that fit right. I ordered Old Navy's under-belly maternity shorts. They look normal, but sit low enough that they'll last me through October or so when it starts to cool off here. I'm pretty sure by then I'll look like I'm carrying twins if it goes like last time. By the time I went on maternity leave, NONE of my shirts actually covered all of my belly. I had a big maternity t-shirt that I borrowed from my sister. You couldn't see my belly from the front, but it sure was breezy.

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8 weeks here and today I went to put on my "go-to" pants and they wouldn't button! Argh. I'm leaving for Canada in 13 days, so I really want to wait until I get there to buy clothes since it's a pain in the butt to find any maternity stuff here in Guatemala. Not sure I'm going to make it!

 

On a funny note, my husband noticed that my pants didn't fit and said, "What happened to your pants? Did they shrink?" I said, "Um, I have a baby in here and apparently it's growing." Lol, you'd think he'd know how this works by now. I guess he just didn't expect it to happen so soon.

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Have you tried the rubber band trick? Double a rubber band or hair band through your button hole, and loop it around the button. Give you an extra couple inches in your normal pants! That trick got me through the first five months of my first pregnancy, but I'm popping so quickly this time I don't think I'm going to make it nearly so long.

 

Why is maternity wear so hard to find in Guatemala? What do Guatemalan women do when they are pregnant?

 

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Do you ladies have a much bigger stomach by the end of the day? It is kind of ridiculous. In the morning, I just look chubby. By dinner time, I look like I'm 4 months pregnant.


Over here! It was either a good thing or a bad thing that I was wearing draw-string pants today. I kept having to let them out over the course of kidlet drop-off at grandma's, dinner, movie, and (worst of all) kidlet pick up. At 10pm I looked like I could be posing for cute preggo FB profile pics. Except it was a bloaty fart baby.

 

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Over here! It was either a good thing or a bad thing that I was wearing draw-string pants today. I kept having to let them out over the course of kidlet drop-off at grandma's, dinner, movie, and (worst of all) kidlet pick up. At 10pm I looked like I could be posing for cute preggo FB profile pics. Except it was a bloaty fart baby.

 

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Have you tried the rubber band trick? Double a rubber band or hair band through your button hole, and loop it around the button. Give you an extra couple inches in your normal pants! That trick got me through the first five months of my first pregnancy, but I'm popping so quickly this time I don't think I'm going to make it nearly so long.

 

Why is maternity wear so hard to find in Guatemala? What do Guatemalan women do when they are pregnant?

 

Have a great trip!



My problem is that I have to find some longer shirts to wear over a rubber band. That's a great idea though. 

I should have been more specific . . . maternity wear in MY size is hard to find. There's tons of stuff for petite little things, lol. I guess all the Mayan women just unwrap their skirts a bit more, the big Latinas like me tend to look in the pacas, or second hand market, but it's pretty hit and miss since it's just piles of random clothing there (stuff shipped down from the thrift stores in the states) and there's no real order. At least in Canada, I know I can walk into a store and look for plus size maternity. :D

 

Off to look for long shirts and rubber bands today . ..

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I am pregnant with #5 and having the same problem! I feel like I look 4 months pregnant already! lol Very bloated all the time.


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Me too Katie!
My DH says last night (at my distress about my clothes and more and more obvious tummy), "Well it just looks like you gained 10lbs, not like you're pg'. Ummmmmmmm, thank you?? Ugh, boys!

My tops are generally slim fitting so I reall am running out of hiding clothing at work. A few more weeks and if I get there I'll tell the parents and stop hiding at work...

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I posted in the "Who have you told" thread, because it felt like I was telling the entire world yesterday. Why? Because I was in full maternity wear all day AND in public. Man, if felt good to look pregnant instead of like I've been hitting the buffet too hard. Unfortunately, I'm back to sucking in at work today :(


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In the morning my belly is still completely flat, but by evening I've got a nice bloat baby going on as well. My theory is bloating is the bodies way of pre-stretching the skin.


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