FIN #42, WA
Please contact heatherdeg if you have anything for this family.
What is your family situation?
I was in a bad car accident when I was pregnant with my first child. I had over 20 surgeries to reconstruct my leg. My (ex) husband left because he could not handle all the stress of the surgeries and hospitalizations. He later fought for custody, so I racked up 28k in debt trying to fight to keep my daughter at least half of the time. I met my current partner a couple years after the separation and we have a child together. We made the choice to move to the town my ex husband lived in, so I could have more frequent time with my daughter. The problem is that my partner is a programmer, and we live in a very small town with no programming jobs. Thankfully he has some clients he can work remotely for, but it's not the same as a full time job (no benefits, and not even as much as minimum wage). We spend a lot of money on things like vitamins, doctor visits, special food for me because of all my allergies, and my attorney because the custody battle is not over. My health is still a mess and it's a daily struggle. We still work hard and do the best we can. We try very hard to live simply and frugally. We've sold a lot of our things. I get disability, and we get some food stamp and housing money. My diet is extremely limited so the food stamps don't even cover half of what I have to spend on food. We'd appreciate any help anyone can offer. Hopefully I will continue to recover so we don't have to live like this much longer. I can't wait for the day when we can be the ones helping other families. Thank you everyone who is helping out with this!
Any allergies or sensitivities in the family?
smoke, fragrances (including laundry detergents like Tide), dust
Which holiday(s) does your family celebrate? Christmas
Please list up to 2 items per person in your family and up to 2 items for your family as a whole below. (If you are requesting gift cards, please specify local or online stores that, if money is available, gift cards can be provided that you can conveniently use.)
Of the items requested below, please prioritize the top 3 overall needs of your family (this can not include direct financial help such as bills paid):
* any of the warm winter clothes for the kids
* gift card for groceries
* gift card for gas
Age and gender: 5, female
1. size 5T jeans
1 pair 5T jeans
a few nice 5T girl clothes (pants and long sleeve shirts.
coming from Washington, so helper not sure if it'll make it by Christmas
2. wool socks, shoe size 9 in toddlers/kids sizes
Age and gender: 2, male
1. cloth diapers- prefold, flats, fitteds, covers- whatever is available but he needs covers the most, in size large, he's about 25-30 lbs,
2. wool socks - he has one pair of smartwool socks that are 12-24 months that fit him, his shoe size is a toddler size 6
1 pair of socks
Adult #1 (YOU! ):
1. balaclava, in a small women's size
2. any kind of food processor that works would really help me out
1. men's large waterproof/windproof snowpants (it gets down to -11 here with lots of snow)
2. men's large waterproof/warm snow gloves
Needs for Your Family As A Whole:
$100 Visa gift card for groceries/warm clothes
1.gift card for groceries (we have a winco and a safeway here - those are the only two stores that are chain stores here)
2. gift card for gas