Definegrace that is so sweet. I got a book called You Were First and I can't even read it to DD because I cry too hard. Glad your guys are pampering you!
Donors--somehow I missed this thread. We used the same anonymous donor for all three kids. When they turn 18 they can get more info if they are interested. We talked about using my stepbrother for a couple days, but it would have been weird, and he and DP aren't close in a way that it would have made sense. I know a number of families tat did that and I think it is awesome, but you have to have the right kind of relationship to start off with, I think. As for other guy friends, we don't have any that feel like family, and although we considered it briefly it just seemed better (especially legally!) to use a bank. There are several families with donor siblings out there, but for now we are holding off being in touch with them until DD understands more
And so are the boys!