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#1 of 6 Old 07-08-2014, 05:38 PM - Thread Starter
 
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sex, anyone in overdrive not wanting it or partner vis versra

with ds1 I was in overdrive so was dh. We cosplept(ing) even with ds1 out of bed or at nanas dh is not interested, but I'm in overdrive again. Anyone else in same boat or know a fix to get dh on board
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I tend to be in over drive right before I get pg.....then it just leaves...lol. Every once in a while I get the desire...but mostly it is just me doing my wifely duties....not saying I don't enjoy it sometimes...but just haven't had much desire most of my pregnancies.

That is how all of my pgs have been. But the waiting to have sex after baby is born is the hardest! At that point my hormones are back but we CANT have sex.....pretty much every time we end up doing it anyway towards the end of healing time (once most of the bleeding has mostly stopped), but twice it just caused bleeding to start again 0~0 So I guess waiting is best..lol.

My dh is still very much into sex when I am pg (he thinks pregnancy is sexy)...I just am the one that doesn't want it..lol



so I don't really have any advice =S
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I wish I could help, my husband is always in overdrive especially during pregnancy, lol. And I wish that I could be in overdrive!

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I would talk with him about it. Maybe there is a reason he isn't interested. He may have a lot on his mind, or be feeling down, etc. My DP has been less interested for reasons that have nothing to do with me or the pregnancy, which is still frustrating, but it helps to understand.

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I would talk with him about it. Maybe there is a reason he isn't interested. He may have a lot on his mind, or be feeling down, etc. My DP has been less interested for reasons that have nothing to do with me or the pregnancy, which is still frustrating, but it helps to understand.
I'm ridiculously horny right now and normally my guy is insatiable but we all ebb and flow. My dd was at my sis's for the night two nights ago and i felt shy to initiate. We JUST talked, because of this thread. We need to talk more! Thanks for the reminder!!
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Score. I texted him last night and told him I needed taken care of. And omg we hadn't had passionate night like that in a long time. He drank bottle of wine and did our deed and massages after. We talked After and he said it was due to my recovery from gallbladder surgery 2weeks who. Yes I had surgery at 20 weeks and he didn't want to interfere healing. Lol. But wow os all I have say. I told him we need that more often . maybe some online shopping is needed for a surprise night. Lol
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