Hi Cela! My third babe is due on DD2's second birthday. I haven't weaned her yet, but I am starting to get annoyed with nursing, which I hear is a common symptom. She's 16 months, and I think I'm going to take weaning day by day. I get that there is a huge difference between 10 months and 16. If you're so inclined, weaning over a two month period will get your baby a full 12 months in, and let your body recover some. I have no idea how to swing tandem nursing. My energy demands from nursing are sky-high (I usually weigh about 10 pounds less when I'm nursing) and I think for my body it would be unwise.
I have no idea how having 2 so close in age will be. DD1 was 3 and I could trust her to be alone while I cared for her sister. It will be interesting, that's for sure!!!