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#1 of 23 Old 07-06-2014, 06:51 AM - Thread Starter
 
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Jodie, I wasn't sure where to post this, or if I even should, but I wanted to ask you to please remove my name from the roster. I just learned today that my baby stopped growing 3 weeks ago. I have started to spot and bleed a little bit.

I want to wish you all the very best in your pregnancies. Happy & healthy 9 months to each and every one of you <3

Jodie you can also delete this thread if you feel the need. Thank you.
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#2 of 23 Old 07-06-2014, 07:51 AM
 
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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I'm sorry

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Oh, dreamingtree, I am so so sorry.

Be gentle with yourself while you grieve.


Sewing, gardening, home birthing, co-sleeping, extended nursing, cloth diapering, baby-wearing, home schooling, attachment parenting busy mommy to dd1 (7), dd2 (4), ds (1) and two in heaven. 
 
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Oh, no. I'm so very sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts. Please take good care.
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I'm sorry this has happened, love.

I had an experience watching a mama bird lay her 4 little eggs in a nest that I was able to watch. 3 hatched, and grew and flew away. One little lone egg was left. I picked it up and saw that it was still liquid-y and squishy inside. Still relatively fresh from my own miscarriage it really helped me with perspective on "miscarriage" or non viable fertilization. Across species, sometimes things just don't come to fruition.

I am very sorry for your grieving. I hope that you find healing light within the experience. Thank you for sharing yourself during these precious weeks.


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So sorry for your loss. Praying for your recovery.
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Sorry to hear this take care and take time to grieve.
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I wanted to share that when I had my losses, the pregnancy loss board on Mothering were so helpful and supportive.

The trying to conceive after loss board was particularly helpful when I was ready to navigate trying again.

Thinking of you and praying for you, dreamingtree.

Sewing, gardening, home birthing, co-sleeping, extended nursing, cloth diapering, baby-wearing, home schooling, attachment parenting busy mommy to dd1 (7), dd2 (4), ds (1) and two in heaven. 
 
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So, so sorry


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My heart aches for you and your lost little one. I know there are no words to make it better, but I'll keep you in my prayers.

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I am sorry about your loss.
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Very sorry to hear of your loss. Praying for your peace and healing.

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You all can't know how much your kind words and gentle support have helped me. It is incredible how the kindness of strangers can mean so much.
I am focusing on peace, healing, accepting, and letting go.
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I, too, want to wish you warm thoughts of healing and let you know how sorry I am for your loss. I have been there. More than once. Grieve in your own way, in your own time.

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I'm sorry to hear about your loss. I hope you find some peace and acceptance moving forward.

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I'm sorry, DreamingTree.
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So sorry Dreamingtree. Holding you in the light
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I am so sorry, mama. I have been there multiple times, and I wish it was something no one else had to go through. Be kind to yourself, and don't hesitate to talk about it with people who you trust and who you know will lend a listening ear and kind words.


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I am so sorry for your loss.

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Oh I am so very very sorry for your loss. Saying a prayer you find the love and encouragement and support you need during this time.

Mama B, wife to Daddy B, and Mama to BB1 (DS) and BB2 (DD) and BB3 (arriving February 2015!)

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