I am also picky about bras and I was just doing a search on "best nursing bra" and kept coming up with Bravado results. I did find a place in town that fits you for them and you can try them on and buy, so I did that. I didn't like the original, but I loved the one I was thinking about getting, the Body Silk Seamless. Normally, I am a 36 B (not when I measure, but that's what seems to fit most often), and getting fitted for this one I was a 34 D. I also can see this one giving me room to go to DD when my breasts are full of milk. I highly recommend trying them on, because you never know what will feel the most comfortable for you. But if you were in a position where you can't try things on, I would recommend the one I just said. The resale value on eBay is almost the same price as new, so that is usually a hint that it's worth the money.
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