goster, when the time comes to decide, you might be surprised by what you choose. I was undecided about whether or not to find out last time, but during the anatomy scan, when my doctor asked me if I wanted to know, I blurted out YES without thinking. Only then did I realize I truly wanted to know. I was glad I found out early; my mother and dd's father had the rest of the pregnancy to get over their disappointment that she wasn't a boy.
single mama to DD1 (June 2011) and DD2 (Dec 2014)