i have this problem almost every time! my first child had her name picked out since i was 12 or something, but the other 3 didn't have names til they were days old. its horrendous. just being on a time crunch in the end, 'cause there's only so much time you have to fill out the birth certificate. (i think here in FL its 5 days or something). i could name a million girls, but boy names are so hard. i think b/c with girl names, i love them or hate them. boy names are all kinda 'ok' sounding, but never 'the one'. and we have a letter thing, too. we have to have double initials in there. whether first and last, or middle and last, whatever. you'd think it'd be easier, and narrow things down. lol. i have a boy name in mind for myself, but i'm still feeling it out. oh, and won't know til the baby is out, what it is, so that makes it crazier. sometimes its really tempting to find out the sex! good luck with everything! you got some time, at least. maybe if you each make lists of 10 names or something, then swap and cross out the ones you don't like on the other one's list? crap, i'm really not much help.