I did - eventually. By the time we had the perinatologist's u/s to check for heart abnormalities at 16 weeks and that was fine I felt a lot better. I had a lot more worries about the labor because it was so traumatic with my DS. I was pretty sure at that point that the pregnancy would go full term but I was very worried about the labor and birth. She ended up being born at home exactly as planned, the labor was hard but manageable, and it was a beautiful experience. Very healing
My first loss was at 11 weeks and a huge shock. I thought we had gotten our fair share of suffering with DS. I had another 5 week loss after that before I got pregnant with my daughter. They convinced me to have betas done and I just had my first draw yesterday and I haven't gotten a call yet, but it's really early. I'm only 15dpo!
Good luck - have you had any testing done to find out why you miscarried? They didn't do any testing after my D&C with my first loss, since it was the first, and I regret that. The 2nd and 3rd there wasn't anything to test, and our genetic testing on ourselves and our DS has turned up nothing obvious. I do know that a lot of women have difficulty with the MTHFR gene and some clotting disorders that can cause repeated losses. My mom had 3 first trimester losses before she had me - so I'm thinking there must be something genetic going on.
Sleepy mom of two (DS-11, DD-8). 5 lost: 9/2004, 3/2005, 4/2013, 8/2014, ectopic- rupture @7w, lost right tube 11/14