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#121 of 571 Old 01-07-2010, 12:17 AM
 
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I started feeling it at 5dpo both this pregnancy and the one with my daughter... I dont think 4dpo is horribly far fetched.
Ooo thanks, that's good obsessing material there. I wish I could remember how early I felt sick with DS. I know it was early but I didn't chart it.
I *could* be 5DPO since I was only charting CM and Cervix position. http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/66196 Here's my chart. Based on what my body has done for 28 cycles, I O'd on CD14. Stranger things have happened though.
I keep trying to make it go away, like, maybe I'm just imagining it. I'm off to try some hummus and see if that works.

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I tried making mine go away too, started out thinking I overate over christmas (5dpo was the sunday after christmas) got so bad that following wednesday (8dpo) that we all thought I had a sympathy hangover for DF... now it comes and goes. Sometimes so bad that I can hardly sit here... others (like right now) I only feel it when I hiccup (a pregnancy symptom that will be VERY hard to hide for the next 2 months until we are ready to tell our families)

and I also had spotting just after O... which is REALLY weird for me. I never spot post O but there it was, a fairly large amount of brown blood in my panties. So odd.

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ooooh so many good charts to stalk!!! Tear and Enigo, Jessica and Beloved --- YYYM- I am so sorry it did not work this month... I am getting so excited and anxious for you ladies to join me... SOON, ladies, SOON. Mae-

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(P.S. if you are bored and want to venture to the I'm Pregnant section, i have another name poll up... I need help. Today I actually told my husband we are scratching all the names we have. I am so lost on names.)

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OK It's official. I will not chart after O next cycle. I need to get on with my life. My stinkin' temp went down a little. I am not out of the game, but I didn't want to test after having a deflated temp.



Woah...Not that it matters, but I just checked my two previous charts. One is a preg chart and the other isn't. On the preg chart my temp went down a little at 11dpo and it went up at 11dpo on the nonpregnant chart.
Oh mann.

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"It Will Happen" (and other phrases I hate hearing)

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I'm new to this forum and blogging. I am not sure if I am in the right forum. I have been dealing with some issues and my miscarriage.

Long story, short:
Last year my husband and I miscarried in October 2008. Its been over a year and well the pain is new every month once I realize we are not pregnant. We try, but my cycles don't seem to be consistant. I am going to a specialist tomorrow and then another specialist in reproductive medicine next week. I want to get two opinions before we take our next step. We have considered adoption, but want to first, find out what is going on with my body and why I can not keep the baby and then why I can not get pregnant.

The miscarriage was our first and we have no other children. I guess I am just needing some support out there. I do not talk about this much with anyone. I don't like to talk to people about it who have never experienced it or who don't understand.

My husband (and tell me if you can relate to this) is not in tune with my emotions each month and the feeling of disappointment I have each month when finding out I am not pregnant. Why can't men be more emotional avaliable and supportive in situations like these!???? AGH! I know he cares but, the other day he told me, "I don't know why it still bothers you" WHAT? Of course it bothers me, I had a heartbeat alive in me and it died. Needless to say, he realized that what he said wasn't the smartest thing to say to me. I feel alone with this and don't really know what to do.

I hate it when people say, 'it will happen' or 'there is a reason for it' I HATE phrases like that. I know those things and well, its better just not said at all. Really, there is nothing to say about a miscarriage when you are on the outside looking in with no experience. So I hope there are a few ladies out there reading this post and have similar stories or expereinces that they can relate to me.
Thanks for letting me pour my heart out. It has been a rough year.

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My DH and I are going to our first specialist appointment today....I hope it goes well.

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Good luck with your appt. LuvMyWestie, and welcome to the BSLs

I am 8dpo and just went to the DT and stocked up on this months tests. I so want to test now, I am only 8dpo though :-/ I might actually test in the morning though. I would have probably implanted the other night if that was what those needling pains were. I wonder how long it takes for the hormone levels t rise enough to be detectable (I know it is too early to test, but it is possible, isn't it??)) arg! I want to pee on them sooo bad. I think i will, hmph.

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to take this and my last pregnancy as examples... I had morning sickness at 5dpo for both, thus I would have to assume implantation happened shortly before that... that pregnancy I got a bfp at 6dpo, this one not until 12dpo...

soooooooo

you COULD get a bfp

but if you dont, dont be disappointed! I still got bfns on FRER on 10dpo! and my 12dpo was barely visible!

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Here's my very early BFP Of course it looks very much like a BFN (like in, exactly)

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Am I imagining a faint line?
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Good luck with your appt. LuvMyWestie, and welcome to the BSLs

I am 8dpo and just went to the DT and stocked up on this months tests. I so want to test now, I am only 8dpo though :-/ I might actually test in the morning though. I would have probably implanted the other night if that was what those needling pains were. I wonder how long it takes for the hormone levels t rise enough to be detectable (I know it is too early to test, but it is possible, isn't it??)) arg! I want to pee on them sooo bad. I think i will, hmph.
After I POS the other day at 9dpo in the afternoon, I thought... Now why would I even test under those circumstances? Then it hit me. If I see a neg, well, it was to be expected. I mean after all it was 9dpo afternoon pee, what could I expect? However IF I were to get a + under those same circumstances, well then it would be a happy surprise at 9dpo.

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When are you going to test, enigo??

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Tomorrow? Gasp! I swear I can't take it if it's neg. A stark white 12 dpo would knock me over. Right now I still have hope. You wouldn't know it would you? Come on, let's both get BFP's with Tear this cycle. Man I had soooo much EWCM this cycle. You know they say 20-25% chance every cycle? Come on I was spot on this cycle!
I actually bought a 2 pack of digitals (To use after I am far enough into my + ICs)

I was just looking for something in the shed. DH tosses everything in the doorway so you can't get in. Gas cans, chainsaws, my son's baby stuff. There was actually a gas can sitting on the tray of the high chair

I have soooo much stuff to get rid of. I wish I knew whether this baby #2 were ever going to happen. I need my life back.

I think I mentioned that MIL is coming for a visit in a couple weeks. If I am not preg this cycle she will be here during O time and I just can't handle it. (Arggggggggggggggggggg!) She is a religious NUT and if I have one more conversation with her about me not using birth control and just letting god.... (She thinks we must be using it since we haven't had another kid yet. She doesn't know about mc #2, just the first) We usually DTD in the TV room during DS's nap. That is where she would be sleeping. (Ewww, I'll never be able to do it in there again).
Also DH just started working at our new business and is working long hours. Luckily we got all that BD in before it started. Awww crap, see? I just HAVE to get pregnant this cycle with a sticky baby. (I have to be specific, no more pregnancies please if I don't get to keep the baby)

It just occurred to me that not only have I had NO symptoms (except the Maaaybe nausea) I haven't had any kind of "I hate the world/depressed" PMS symptoms. They are usually in full force about now. My boobs are not sore....maybe the right one is a tiny bit sore. I just realized, you know what it probably is though? I have cut out caffeine, processed foods, white flour, nonorganic meat and veg, and I have been supplementing my A%^$ off. Maybe I just cured my PMS symptoms. The only one I ever had was boob soreness (starting at about 4dpo) and depression starting 2-3 days before AF (Who is due Sun, whore.. I hate her)

If I am preg, I am going to drink an ice cold coke. I haven't had one in months. I LOVE coke. I was on a coke and coffee diet when I conceived DS. OMG!! I want one righhhht now! ahhh

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Thanks everyone for the welcome.

LoveMyWestie: You're right the platitudes (it was the for best, there was something wrong w/ the baby . . . etc.) do suck. My theory is that the people who say these things are only saying them in what they think is an attempt to to make you feel better - but it's really to justify the disorder of the world to themselves. It doesn't fit into their rosey view of the world that babies just die for no reason. So, they have to make up cliche'd non-truths when it happens to someone they know. Ignore them and do what you need to do for you to grieve the loss of your little one and as you deal w/ the realities of this ttc roller coaster.

Lyndzies: YES, def a sign.

Nanette56: Those announcements just don't seem to get easier, do they?

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!!!!! Also I feel for you having your mil visit (especially potentially during O time). The first 1.5 years of our marriage we lived in a little cheap dinky apartment next door to my mil - shared wall. It was awful!! Now she's 30 miles away but hates driving the freeways. So, we only see her once in a while when we decide. Hoping that figuring out how to bd around your mil's visit won't be neccessary. Also I understand your coffee/coke addiction. I have been drinking coffee like it's going out style this whole cycle. I know I shouldn't, but can not help it right now.

YYYM: Your blurb is soo much more eloquent than I'm able to be right now. Thank you. Mostly my theory has always been that as the oldest of 5, I got all of the crap genes, while my sister for instance has had 3 babies in the last 5 years, using some form of bc each and every time.

Officially I have blood clotting properties that create issues for pregnancies and a "microvascular compromise" which means that when I do get pregnant - if the blood clots don't get them, the fact that my body can't get enough of the right hormones to the babies, will. AND if that doesn't get them, I carry some viruses in my body that take advantage of my lowered immune system and attack them AND if that doesn't get them then the possibility of having a growth hormone defect (my tests later this month) means I don't make enough of the right hormones to get there anyway. I'm low progesterone, high estrogen. It's fun. . BUT when we figure all of this ridiculous stuff out I'll get back on my 14 pills a day and we'll probably do IVF, because it's taken 9 years to get this knowledge, it's all correctable and this girl is tired of waiting!! Other than that, nothing new from me.

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LoveMyWestie: You're right the platitudes (it was the for best, there was something wrong w/ the baby . . . etc.) do suck. My theory is that the people who say these things are only saying them in what they think is an attempt to to make you feel better - but it's really to justify the disorder of the world to themselves. It doesn't fit into their rosey view of the world that babies just die for no reason. So, they have to make up cliche'd non-truths when it happens to someone they know. Ignore them and do what you need to do for you to grieve the loss of your little one and as you deal w/ the realities of this ttc roller coaster.
Ok, just realized that is NOT what you said. But the same theory could work. Just punch the next person who says something like 'relax it'll happen' to you, they'll get the hint.

My grandfather for years has been trying to convince me that we just need to start adoption proceedings. He honestly believes that THAT will trick the universe into getting us pg because he knows alot of people who have gotten pg w/ in a year or so of deciding to adopt or having adopted. Gotta love him, he's in his 80's - what are you gonna do?

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We were just at the park and DS was playing with a boy running around. The lady said "Is he your only one?" Oh how I hate that line. I mean why would I only take this son to the park if I had more kids? "Um, no I have 3 but the other two are ugly so I don't bring them outside".
Anyhoo, when I said yes she said, "Oh I can see why, he's a handful". So I punched her in the neck.

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We were just at the park and DS was playing with a boy running around. The lady said "Is he your only one?" Oh how I hate that line. I mean why would I only take this son to the park if I had more kids? "Um, no I have 3 but the other two are ugly so I don't bring them outside".
Anyhoo, when I said yes she said, "Oh I can see why, he's a handful". So I punched her in the neck.
well on one hand... I do take DD out while DS is in school. Also, when DF is home we have days where one of us takes one child and the other takes the other and we go out having Mommy and DS/DD and RyRy and DS/DD dates. Go out for lunch, go to the park, go shopping and get the other sibling a present without them being there to see.

On the other hand... the handful comment is rude and unnecessary. I may say that about my OWN children sometimes (being a single mom with two kids, one in school and boyscouts and the other one still a bit too young for school... with no other adults around to help... CAN be a handful.) but I would NEVER tell another lady that her child is. That lady deserved to be punched in the neck! LOL

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ANOTHER FB Pregnancy announcement @ 5 WEEKS along!!!! SOMEONE JUST SHOOT ME NOW!!!!
I totally hear you! Today, I figured out from criptic messages that another of my friends is expecting and is complaining of sickness...I HATE FACEBOOK! I don't know why I torture myself with it anymore.

Engio ...I have been getting that comment a lot lately too, it hurts...have to try the punch in the neck trick though.

I was having an okay couple of days too, and now I'm back to wanting to yell, hide in bed and cry.

What does everyone do when they feel insanely jealous, angry and depressed that helps? I really need some ideas as I've run out of walls to put a fist through.

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We were just at the park and DS was playing with a boy running around. The lady said "Is he your only one?" Oh how I hate that line. I mean why would I only take this son to the park if I had more kids? "Um, no I have 3 but the other two are ugly so I don't bring them outside".
Anyhoo, when I said yes she said, "Oh I can see why, he's a handful". So I punched her in the neck.
Brilliant. She deserved it too.

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I just woke up and as I was peeing, I realized that I forgot to POAS, oh well...it is only 9dpo though and it would've been a BFN. I am realizing that this month, I will be extremely bitter if I don't get a BFP. We can't even go in for a fertility workup because we are not actually trying and insurance (as most know) doesn't pay for it. What is wrong with me?? I just don't understand why it has teken us soo long, with perfect tim ing to conceive? I m ight just do it this afternoon, I bought 8 tests to use this month.

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Total BFNs I keep imagining a faint line though

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Oh, humor me guys These are from right at 10 minutes, you can maybe see it (extremely faint), it is in another room that I took the pictures. Am I crazy?

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You know I swear I see something.........

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Well.....temp dropped, BFN, and MIL confirmed her visit for the 20th-26th. That ought to cover the next O date.
Man...last night I almost had convinced myself.

..Or what will happen is the visit will end up delaying O (like every time we go to visit her) and I end up getting pregnant very late in the cycle and losing the pregnancy. Just like the last 2 times we went to visit at her place. A cooincidence, I'm sure, but we're two for two here.

You know all this timed BD is killing me. Next month I'm making sure we get it on a + OPK and then not worrying about it. 4 days in a row? Come on!

Come on Beloved! I'm still rooting for you even though I'm not going with you!!!!

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beloved, i may see something but i'm not sure, but i couldn't see many of mae's early lines that everyone else saw so don't count on me. i'm hoping though! it's frustrating when DH isn't on board, i know. each month that we get the timing right & it doesn't happen, i worry about whether i'll even get a chance next month! i hope this is it for you. come on sticky baby!

luvmywestie, welcome. i'm sorry for all you've gone through and hope you can find support here!

enigo, you make me laugh so hard sometimes. punched in the neck... rofl. she deserved a good punching. what an obnoxious beast. i hope this is it for you too. keep me busy this month, ladies!

all my FB friends are preggo, and most announced at 4 weeks. wtf? with my daughter i posted it on FB at 13ish weeks, since i couldn't tell everyone in person, and can't imagine doing it earlier. anyone i told before that was someone i could talk to about m/c. one of my early anouncing friends did m/c, but still posted her next preg announcement at 5 weeks. to each their own i guess. i certainly don't want hundreds of FB friends knowing all my business!

my in-laws are happy that we're "waiting." oy. they are one of those couples that "decided" to get pregnant with their kids and conceived both the first try, so if i'm not pregnant we must be waiting. which everyone thinks is great because they think we aren't ready. sigh!

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just saw your post, enigo. can MIL watch your DS and give you guys a date night? i always think each month that i should schedule a couples massage and date night around O time. never works out though! but if your MIL is good with DS and you get a built-in sitter out of the deal, well hey, a little car sex never hurts!

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Hmmmmmmm...I suppose we could have a "date night" and just circle back into the backyard in the bushes....

I wouldn't trust her speed and agility when it comes to DS. He can leap tall buildings in a single bound. She also tends to spontaneously fall asleep while sitting on the couch and DS tends to spontaneously unlock the doors and go outside. We live on a busy street. Blah blah blah

With her here, she will be sleeping in DS's room and DS will be sleeping with us....
She does like to go to Mass several times a week. Hopefully it will be when it is time to DTD.
I bought like 100 OPK's last month and laughed that I wouldn't need them. Crud!

I don't think I would mind TTC alllllllllllll over again if I only didn't have to wait 2-3 more weeks to O again. I so cannot afford all these supplements. I could have bought a baby by now. Hell since I've been at it so long, I probably could have even found one who look likes me too!

On one hand I figure it gives me yet another month to get healthier. If that's possible at this point. I am just so tired of the wheatgrass juice. It is such a hassle to go to the restaurant I get it from. It is 1 block from me, I usually walk. Thing is, they are soooo slow moving in that place I almost pop waiting the half hour (with DS who does NOT wait half hours) it takes for them to get me the damn wheat grass juice. Plus, it's $5 every time. I keep saying I'm going to call it in. Maybe that can be my new cycle resolution.

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If you even need to do that.

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Hmmmmmmmmm. Maybe I'm not out... I will certainly not have to get FF VIP again. If I do 'll wait until just before O though to maximize my obsessing

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