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oh brichole, how scary! I'm so sorry you're going through this. There is some great news in this: heartbeat, good measurements, even ahead of schedule. Focus on these wonderful positives and remember that you are pregnant and your body can do this. Take it easy and ask your DH to pamper you. I'm thinking of you, hon! stick around, little one!

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oh brichole, how scary! I'm so sorry you're going through this. There is some great news in this: heartbeat, good measurements, even ahead of schedule. Focus on these wonderful positives and remember that you are pregnant and your body can do this. Take it easy and ask your DH to pamper you. I'm thinking of you, hon! stick around, little one!

Thank you sweetie!!! DH is being great and even let me just stay with my paretns last night since they live about 45 minutes closer to the hospital we use than we do...he really is a great man and he's very worried about me and the baby. I am going to focuse on the good stuff and be positive!!!!

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I know i graduated several weeks ago but has anyone ever known anyone or had this happen to them?


I had to go to the ER for spotting and cramping last night and when they did my first u/s of this pregnancy they noticed there is some blood btw the placinta and my uterus. The doctor said that there's only like a 50/50 change that i will miscarry but i'm really worried. I was measuring 6w which is pretty much what i thought i was (my doctor said i was 4 days ahead of what i really am) and the heart rate is 124BPM. I know i'm probably just freaking out but i don't want to lose this baby after everything my and DH have been through over the past 2 1/2 years of ttc this baby!!!! I did find out there's only one so that is a plus for me since we were on fertility meds...and i don't have an ectopic pregnancy...which i was worried about too...maybe i'm worrying for nothing but the doctor said that if the blood keeps building up it can cause the placinta to disconnect from my uterus and thus cause a miscarriage.
Look up subchorionic hematoma. It is EXTREMELY common and I would actually say your chances of miscarriage are much less than 50/50... Several of the ladies in my DDC had one... its a common cause of early pregnancy bleeding (even some to the point of AF-like bleeding with clots!) but doctors do not know how or why they form and almost every time they clear up just fine by the next check.

(this is amazingly one of those times that googling a scary sounding medical term will actually relieve some of your fear!)

A couple quotes from the very first page you will find on it if you google it:

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SCH or Subchorionic Hematoma is a gathering of blood between the membranes of the placenta and the uterus. A more technical name is the chorion. Some doctors will also just refer to it as a blood clot.
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The current statistics for pregnancy loss with a SCH is 1-3%. This low percentage is related to large clots. Most pregnancies progress with no further complications. Most clots resolve on their own by 20 weeks of pregnancy. The clot either bleeds itself out or the body absorbs it.
http://www.justmommies.com/articles/...hematoma.shtml

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brichole1214: Oh no! I'm glad hubby is being so understanding and helping you out. Just take it easy and let your body do its thing. Everything will work out

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Look up subchorionic hematoma. It is EXTREMELY common and I would actually say your chances of miscarriage are much less than 50/50... Several of the ladies in my DDC had one... its a common cause of early pregnancy bleeding (even some to the point of AF-like bleeding with clots!) but doctors do not know how or why they form and almost every time they clear up just fine by the next check.

(this is amazingly one of those times that googling a scary sounding medical term will actually relieve some of your fear!)

A couple quotes from the very first page you will find on it if you google it:

http://www.justmommies.com/articles/...hematoma.shtml


Thank you Mae!!! You are always wonderful when it comes to knowing what to look for and where to find things to read about what's going on. The ER doctor was really freaking us out last night...and i just want to make sure that we have better chances than what he was giving us last night. You're the best!!!!!

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I know i graduated several weeks ago but has anyone ever known anyone or had this happen to them?


I had to go to the ER for spotting and cramping last night and when they did my first u/s of this pregnancy they noticed there is some blood btw the placinta and my uterus. The doctor said that there's only like a 50/50 change that i will miscarry but i'm really worried. I was measuring 6w which is pretty much what i thought i was (my doctor said i was 4 days ahead of what i really am) and the heart rate is 124BPM. I know i'm probably just freaking out but i don't want to lose this baby after everything my and DH have been through over the past 2 1/2 years of ttc this baby!!!! I did find out there's only one so that is a plus for me since we were on fertility meds...and i don't have an ectopic pregnancy...which i was worried about too...maybe i'm worrying for nothing but the doctor said that if the blood keeps building up it can cause the placinta to disconnect from my uterus and thus cause a miscarriage.
Oh my goodness. I hope everything works out!! I'm sending good thoughts your way, good to hear DH is being so helpful. <3 Keep us posted!

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brichole1214: Oh no! I'm glad hubby is being so understanding and helping you out. Just take it easy and let your body do its thing. Everything will work out

Thank you!!! Yes my DH is WONDERFUL....and i think he's just as worried as me. I'm trying to find ways to comfort both of us...

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I learned of this when I started spotting during my first pregnancy. I DID NOT HAVE THIS!!! So, don't let my miscarriage scare you, mine were caused by two completely unrelated things. I researched all causes of spotting before going to a doctor. I learned the same things MaerynPearl posted about. I think the best thing to do is rest and try not to stress. Look it up yourself, I think it may help you feel better.

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Oh, and ER doctors SUCK when it comes to early pregnancy issues. They never seem to understand how desperately some of us WANT the baby!!

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I learned of this when I started spotting during my first pregnancy. I DID NOT HAVE THIS!!! So, don't let my miscarriage scare you, mine were caused by two completely unrelated things. I researched all causes of spotting before going to a doctor. I learned the same things MaerynPearl posted about. I think the best thing to do is rest and try not to stress. Look it up yourself, I think it may help you feel better.

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Oh, and ER doctors SUCK when it comes to early pregnancy issues. They never seem to understand how desperately some of us WANT the baby!!

I just looked it up and i'm happy to say i feel a lot better than i did...and so does DH!!!! So now it's time to rest and drink LOTS of water....i'm supposed to have another u/s done and more blood work done so i'm just going to hang out and chill lol...dh is being so wonderful to me too.

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jennifer- how many dpo are you now? FX 4U!
I'm only 6DPO today. Took a test and of course BFN. LOL! I wasnt expecting a BFP. I just had to get it out of my system!
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I know i graduated several weeks ago but has anyone ever known anyone or had this happen to them?


I had to go to the ER for spotting and cramping last night and when they did my first u/s of this pregnancy they noticed there is some blood btw the placinta and my uterus. The doctor said that there's only like a 50/50 change that i will miscarry but i'm really worried. I was measuring 6w which is pretty much what i thought i was (my doctor said i was 4 days ahead of what i really am) and the heart rate is 124BPM. I know i'm probably just freaking out but i don't want to lose this baby after everything my and DH have been through over the past 2 1/2 years of ttc this baby!!!! I did find out there's only one so that is a plus for me since we were on fertility meds...and i don't have an ectopic pregnancy...which i was worried about too...maybe i'm worrying for nothing but the doctor said that if the blood keeps building up it can cause the placinta to disconnect from my uterus and thus cause a miscarriage.
I know how scared you must be feeling! I had this when I was pregnant with my daughter. I didn't have spotting at all, and wouldn't have known it was there without the early u/s. In our case, it resolved within a few weeks, and the rest of the pregnancy was completely textbook She's 7 now, and perfect in every way (well, she's a bit of a tattletale and she has very long toes, lol, but that's neither here nor there)

BTW--Hi, everyone! My name is Cami. We're officially trying for #4 this summer (but we're lazy about w/d so it may happen sooner, and that's fine too).

I d/c hormonal bc last week and I started charting to figure out my cycle. Hopefully it won't be too long before I start o'ing again. I'll probably have lots of questions to start off

Anyway, looking forward to obsessing with you guys!

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I'm only 6DPO today. Took a test and of course BFN. LOL! I wasnt expecting a BFP. I just had to get it out of my system!
See my wife wasn't the only one! hahaha

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BTW--Hi, everyone! My name is Cami. We're officially trying for #4 this summer (but we're lazy about w/d so it may happen sooner, and that's fine too).
Anyway, looking forward to obsessing with you guys!
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brichole- im so sorry you are having to go through this- praying that all is smooth sailing from here on out.

bunny- welcome. hope your stay is short.

most importantly- spin- any guy with a lump in his testicle needs to get it looked at asap. dont worry about the fertility issue. but he needs to get checked. that is no joke.

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brichole- im so sorry you are having to go through this- praying that all is smooth sailing from here on out.

bunny- welcome. hope your stay is short.

most importantly- spin- any guy with a lump in his testicle needs to get it looked at asap. dont worry about the fertility issue. but he needs to get checked. that is no joke.
Yeah, I've been bugging for years. I'm going to have a very serious talk with him about it. He's only 24, I just hope it isn't anything serious.

(edited to add: he's going to go to the doctor, fertility issues be damned. he didn't know how actually, seriously, worried I've been and is more than happy to go to assuage my fears about what he still thinks is a non-issue. No matter, it'll be okay)

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Well I woke up this morning at 5.40 instead of 7 when I usually wake up and my temp has gone down down down!! Why ?! I know it's goin to be abit wrong because of the time difference but it's a big drop!

Even if that was Af, I'm not expecting her for at least a few more days!


Edit : since I woke up at 5.45 I have only been lying in bed, it's now 6.40 and I just took my temp and it was 98.62, does that make a deifference? Hmm

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Brandy I think you have a strong little bean in there! I had a placenta abruption with my second. I bled in the first trimester frequently and it was confirmed before 12 weeks. I was put on bed rest and by u/s watched it heal itself over the course of a few months. I went on to have a great pregnancy and ds is now a healthy 8 year old.

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Well I woke up this morning at 5.40 instead of 7 when I usually wake up and my temp has gone down down down!! Why ?! I know it's goin to be abit wrong because of the time difference but it's a big drop!

Even if that was Af, I'm not expecting her for at least a few more days!


Edit : since I woke up at 5.45 I have only been lying in bed, it's now 6.40 and I just took my temp and it was 98.62, does that make a deifference? Hmm
What about late implantation?

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i only have a second here, but just a quick note -

clh- sit tight. that happens sometime. it might be right back up tomorrow, so just wait it out. the corpus luteum makes little bursts of estrogen, too, and you might just have caught your temp at that time.

spin- im glad he's going to the doctor. of course chances are it is nothing, but any guy, 24 or any age, with a lump in his teste needs to get it checked out. it's like lumps in our breasts. the vast majority of the time they are nothing to worry about, but the chance to catch a problem early if there is one is so crucial, we cant ignore those things, you know?

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Brichole- I'm so sorry! I hope it all works out. I think you and your little baby will be just fine

Bunny- WELCOME! MAY YOUR STAY BE SHORT AND SWEET

Clh- I don't know anything about that stuff... charts ydont mean too much we either or aren't. Like someone on this thread said its our husbands and SO's that get us pregnant not our charts

Spin- I'm glad he's getting it looked at I hope everything is alright with that.

Afm- my temp is still up... somehow I feel my chart is lying to me and it will drop way in in a couple of days and af will arrive. I expect her any time between then 27th and the 1st. The 2nd at the very latest. Next cycle I will be in chicago with just SO no kids (his or mine) just us 2 during my fertile window so next cycle is my cycle and I fully intend to freak out that cycle and obsess over every little thing! Has anyone else had a chart like this and not been pregnant? Could this just be my natural pattern during ovulatory cycles?

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